Relationship with a "thirst trap"

[Ohene]

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[No_bammer_weed]

I woulda never talked to you if I'd known you was a popular thug...
















...make my record skip

 

[allshaftnohead]

It's crazy that it's a whole generation that seeks validation and interaction through the internet.

Prime example was this one girl I kinda know that is always postin shyt like that. She's cool with one of me and my roommates' friends, and they came over to sip at our place one night before they hit the club. Our friend brought about 8 girls over, they were all cool as hell, sittin there talkin, playin drinking games, whatever. This one girl was sitting in the corner the entire time on the phone. I thought "shyt she must have somebody to talk to or somethin "

They left and I took my ass to bed because I had work early and I get on IG right before I fall asleep and she's just been postin to instagram all night from my house. Like there were 10 other people to talk to and she's just postin all night

It doesn't make sense man, no inclination for real social interaction from so many people now

 

[TwistedMetal]

Can you tame a hyena and have it as a pet?

 

[ThadudeK9]

I think it can be suspicious behavior and I would talk to her about it especially since it can be perceived as disrespectful. However, if chick is displaying attention whoring ways in the very beginning, and you fail to address it, but instead you wife her.... That's the L you take.

Hell yea it's disrespectful!!!!
You right it is an L...but it is possible for a chick to display those ways on a sneak tip, is it not!
A chick could be putting tht sexual lure out there and dude never know it- for example does your man know everything you say on here, who you pm on fb?
People can have secret personality online and you never know about it. To me that's th real " L" you take. I just don't understand why chicks put tht out there, and dudes too- it's not gender based.

 

[ThadudeK9]

Overall if I found out my girl was a thirst trap or engaging in sexual based convos I'd feel madly disrespected, so I know others dudes would feel th same. My PSA is ...ladies please keep th sexual energy directed towards your man (if you can't next th Nikka) bc nobody deserves tht disrespect

 

[Lil Big Daddy]

If you were in a comimitted relationship/ married and eventually found out your girl was a thirst trap or tease( I.e. Wanting attention by portraying sexual energy through pics & and flirtatious statements) how would you react?

To me it's suspect! I don't understand females tht are in committed relationships and do this... Idk maybe I'm thinking too much into it.

....thoughts?

She needs to grow the fukk up. Don't no QUEEN act like that. Da fuQ?? Queens seek that type of attention from their KINGS and their Kings ONLY.
Shawty still just a lil girl princess if she actin like that
She need to be fkn single

 

[ThadudeK9]

She needs to grow the fukk up. Don't no QUEEN act like that. Da fuQ?? Queens seek that type of attention from their KINGS and their Kings ONLY.
Shawty still just a lil girl princess if she actin like that
She need to be fkn single

Preach!

You right! Queens know they don't need tht attetion outside thy man. It crazy how chicks like tht be th first to complain about th objectification of women from men but turn around and objectify themseleves

 

[TheFemalePerspective]

Need some female input

@Milk N Cookies @TheFemalePerspective @BonitaChelz
I'm new in here,and you ladies seem to always keep it real. Why's your thoughts?

How old is she? I actually deleted my fb and Instagram because I'd feel myself after receiving those likes

Ask her genuinely: Why do you post several pics? Why do strangers need to see you? What do you benefit?

If she replies back with, "I just like sharing pics'' whilst her pics show the size of her booty and are always flattering from all angles

You're definitely dealing with a potential thot

Personally I refuse to date anyone who feels the need to share their life on a platform

 

[Boogie]

Need some female input

@Milk N Cookies @TheFemalePerspective @BonitaChelz
I'm new in here,and you ladies seem to always keep it real. Why's your thoughts?

 

[Swing]

Can you tame a hyena and have it as a pet?

 

[swimmingpools]

If you were in a comimitted relationship/ married and eventually found out your girl was a thirst trap or tease( I.e. Wanting attention by portraying sexual energy through pics & and flirtatious statements) how would you react?

To me it's suspect! I don't understand females tht are in committed relationships and do this... Idk maybe I'm thinking too much into it.

....thoughts?

If they are posting pictures and others comment on their pics with suggestive comments, then thats different. Unless my significant other is entertaining them, its nothing I have control over so I wouldnt be upset over someone finding them attractive.

I would leave them if they were deliberately posting nude or revealing pictures because I dont like being made a fool of.

 

[Flychologist]

Attention whores ain't gonna be satisfied with just your attention. Having a relationship with one is just setting yourself up for being cheated on be it emotionally and/or physically.