Damn that's awful. You still recommend marriage even with going through all that shyt?
huh??
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You and @13473 are missing the point. I'm not holding Erykah Badu up as a great bastion of relationship advice but even a broken clock is right twice a day.
Why do yall have an issue with her saying that she listens to men, and me telling other women that that part is great advice and that they should listen to men as well?
Take the good, discard the bad, it's that simple.
if i made a thread listing diet advice, and 4x i referenced diet tips Lizzo advised, those tips could have years worth of scientific evidence backing them up and people would still react "LIzzo?
"no one was upset/disagreeing with the advice. it's pretty common advice whether people put it into practice or not. but like i said i don't wanna derail. i honestly thought your op would've been good on its own without all the badu stuff.
Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
if i made a thread listing diet advice, and 4x i referenced diet tips Lizzo advised, those tips could have years worth of scientific evidence backing them up and people would still react "LIzzo?
Just like the average woman, there you go. Mad cause somebody even dared to suggest that part of the onus for a good relationship should be on y'all too, and that maybe, just MAYBE, y'all should give a caring ear to the men in your life.
You are absolutely disgusted by the very suggestion. Wow.
This thread is church. @Neo The Resurrected ONE where’s the line you draw when a woman doesn’t follow directions or listen. Sometimes as men I think we toe the line between being direct and concise, and being controlling and manipulative with our guidance. If shorty doesn’t want to listen then I’ll let her cooking and watch the results, which usually is disappointment but hey 
When do you put your foot down and tell her it’s my way or the highway no compromises 
When do you put your foot down and tell her it’s my way or the highway no compromises 
Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
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Yo served the protein over the rice and talking about focus on the rice.if i made a thread listing diet advice, and 4x i referenced diet tips Lizzo advised, those tips could have years worth of scientific evidence backing them up and people would still react "LIzzo?
no one was upset/disagreeing with the advice. it's pretty common advice whether people put it into practice or not. but like i said i don't wanna derail. i honestly thought your op would've been good on its own without all the badu stuff.
Everyone listens while in the fukking/honeymoon phase of the relationship. If you've ever had a fukk buddy, how many times has she been the most chill of women, able to converse with, sex is good, etc?Brotha
You and @13473 are missing the point. I'm not holding Erykah Badu up as a great bastion of relationship advice but even a broken clock is right twice a day.
Why do yall have an issue with her saying that she listens to men, and me telling other women that that part is great advice and that they should listen to men as well?
Take the good, discard the bad, it's that simple.
Sex, especially without strings attached provides an avenue for both men and women to be vulnerable/comfortable. Men have no qualms with sharing because you're not in a situation where it could be used against you later, like in an argument. (Who is arguing with a fukk buddy?) LOL women will grab wings with a fukk buddy and eat salad with a dude she's trying to date, but can't have sex with because it's too soon.
Conveniently, it appears that Erykah taps out when the real listening and communicating is required, like co-parenting. Now it's his baby too, his input is required, you have to REALLY listen to him. We haven't seen her get there. You call it "free spirit" I call it stop having a baby with every man you date.
