Relationships are a trap and boring as fukk

[DirtyMoney]

Wait till u get married

No i am not getting married. Not to her and not anyone. Not soon. Not ready.

Yo chick busted and aint on shyt then. Its your fault for wifing subpar troglodytes. A good woman doesnt have you feeling like any of that shyt.

Nah shes a solid 6.5 but aint got ambition.

 

[DirtyMoney]

How bout you marry your BM and be a role model to your seed nikka

fukk NO to marriage. Yes to being a rolemodel.

 

[the bossman]

OP are you the type of person who's open to a LTR/marriage or are you anti-relationship completely. If it's the first, going raw in a chick you think is boring was a big mistake. If it's the latter, going raw in any chick is a big mistake.

If i keep hearing this then only thing is to do it. Seems like it falls on me.

The onus is on you as a man to lead your family & relationship to whatever you want it to be. If you want it to be more interesting. What are you doing to help get it there?

you need to upgrade your shorty OP

mold her into the woman you wanna be, it's never too late

This

Honestly OP this sounds like weak p*ssy hound behavior. With your income there are so many other fun things you could be getting into or building besides chasing new p*ssy all the time which will never satisfy you. It's a huge time waste when you look back.

 

[mortuus est]

Nah shes a solid 6.5 but aint got ambition.

tell her to holla at 50

 

[BamdaDon]

Lot of feelings getting caught

 

[MF budz]

I get if youre not happy. Atleast try to set your bm up to better her future for her and your seed. Like tell her you two are romantically done but let her get on her feet and get going idk. End it before yki get caught then she will go straight for the child support

 

[RAX 010]

I understand

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

cliff notes: got my bm pregnant like 15 months ago. i love my seed but cot damn a nikka is bored as fukk.. i need like 5 side chicks to balance this sheer fukking boredom. I'm 30, what have i done lol.. sole bread winner rightchea but this shyt is for the birds.

Correction. Your relationship is boring as fukk n a trap

Soul bread winner in 2016

Pick em wisely n have less complaints

 

[DirtyMoney]

OP are you the type of person who's open to a LTR/marriage or are you anti-relationship completely. If it's the first, going raw in a chick you think is boring was a big mistake. If it's the latter, going raw in any chick is a big mistake.


The onus is on you as a man to lead your family & relationship to whatever you want it to be. If you want it to be more interesting. What are you doing to help get it there?


This

Honestly OP this sounds like weak p*ssy hound behavior. With your income there are so many other fun things you could be getting into or building besides chasing new p*ssy all the time which will never satisfy you. It's a huge time waste when you look back.

LTR/Marriage was always my goal with a real relationship. If it actually worked where 2 people put in a similar amount of effort, build and chase goals together. No one teaches you how to do relationships, you use the trial and error approach till you find something that works.

Going raw is the dumbest shyt cos theres disease, hep b c etc.. but I was livin that life.. To be real, was goin raw with the sides too. thats why the homies say i'm lucky if you examine it one way.

It does sound like p*ssy hound behaviour, I framed it wrong. Ultimately it is what is. I've been able to see some alternative viewpoints which is good.

 

[KravenMorehead™]

IF you was already about that sidechick life...why move into a scenario where having said side chicks becomes a detriment to the situation you willingly put yourself into, breh?

Wish I could rep you for the Calvin & Hobbes gif fukk this shyt

 

[StickStickly]

YEah fam thats the biggest issue. When we lived seperate and i could fukk like 3-4 sidechicks a week it was all gravy. I loved her more. Now i cant enjoy life and see her every fukking day and night and smell her shyts and all that.. it aint gravy.

can someone politely explain how this works

 

[StickStickly]

The only option to cure your boredom is cheating? Sounds like you're not invested in her. Can't confuse boredom with lack of interest in a relationship. Sounds like this is where people are getting confused

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Bruh i am the sole income earner. I aint doin shyt. I work like 12-16 hr days. I need to come home to some exciting shyt.

THIS. Simps got the game messed up. " as a man you are suppose to entertain the woman" no the fukk he doesn't. What is she gonna do to keep you from looking for a another woman

 

[DirtyMoney]

The only option to cure your boredom is cheating? Sounds like you're not invested in her. Can't confuse boredom with lack of interest in a relationship. Sounds like this is where people are getting confused

Yeah i think i self diagnosed.

THIS. Simps got the game messed up. " as a man you are suppose to entertain the woman" no the fukk he doesn't. What is she gonna do to keep you from looking for a another woman

Dress up. Do shyt. After work I aint got time to be thinkin of no extra shyt.

 

[DirtyMoney]

can someone politely explain how this works

I had options so I could enjoy outside p*ssy but still appreciate what she did. Its the equivalent of being able to eat buffet daily to make you appreciate your fav meal which you can eat when you want by choice but not by force(or over and over and over)...