Relationships are a trap and boring as fukk

[Rice'N Beckford]

Well you already bouta smash a married chick so you already made ya mind up

You skeetin up in these women with no outlook in the future. Im using your situation to think back when Im thinking about procreating with a chick.

 

[DirtyMoney]

3-4 sidechicks your relationship sounds unhealthy as hell, i would say take them cuffs off but it's cheaper to keep her

theres main sides and sides u hit once in a while like if u c them at an event. but any sides is a sign of a man who wants something else.
i guess theres always 1 main side and some extra jumps in less frequent rotation. i can recall all my sides who have been like mains since they been around for 3-6 months at time.. till they want more or question why they get odd hours and no public appearances

 

[DirtyMoney]

Well you already bouta smash a married chick so you already made ya mind up

You skeetin up in these women with no outlook in the future. Im using your situation to think back when Im thinking about procreating with a chick.

I didn't plan it, she was to be on the pill then apparently she wasnt. typical story you hear then never think it would be you.
Don't get no one pregnant that you do not want to deal with for the rest of your life.

 

[Youhadasparkwhenustarted]

No common intersts(even prior to procreating), boring personality, not adventurous, no good stories, boring friends.. just all around one of those giirls who aint experienced life. I think it was an easy kill and i stuck around. got comfortable.. now i gotta pay my way out

I think this problem kills a lot of relationships before they even start. I got a homeboy who was in the exact same situation a few years ago. He met a girl who was an easy lay, one month later he's staying with her, and a year and a half later they gotta kid together. They called it a relationship, but it ain't seem like it from the outside because they didn't have shyt in common and didn't do any of the shyt they liked individually together; they just stuck with it until the infatuation wore off and he just bounced, leaving her completely heartbroken. Seems like you're headed down the path of break up anyway, so I say dead it now, and not just because it's the right thing to do. You gotta think about it like this; if you get you a side chick and she catches you, she's gonna use the courts to fukk you every chance she gets since ya'll got a seed now, and I've seen it happen quite a few times, so keep that in mind.

 

[4fossa]

Man, why still stay with the girl


When u think about your relationship focusing on sidepieces, I guess it's time to get single


and yeah I know she's pregnant, so

 

[badtguy]

This isnt reality. My consulting gig pays #3k weekly. She earns $0 since baby's been born.

Sounds like you a sucka who doesn't want to lead his household.

If I'm the main earner I actually wouldn't have a problem coming home to the MOTHER of my child who earns 0. As long she does her duties as a mother and does well for the child. I'm happy.

 

[DirtyMoney]

Man, why still stay with the girl


When u think about your relationship focusing on sidepieces, I guess it's time to get single


and yeah I know she's pregnant, so

She's had the baby fam. Its not focusing on. Its just admitting I am bored. It happens.

 

[DirtyMoney]

Sounds like you a sucka who doesn't want to lead his household.

If I'm the main earner I actually wouldn't have a problem coming home to the MOTHER of my child who earns 0. As long she does her duties as a mother and does well for the child. I'm happy.

Fam, I pay all bills and run shyt. You confuse leading the household with me saying i'm bored. Aint a bill paid in this house that aint by me.
You sound like a simp. you'd rather be with a bish just cos she's raising your seed even if you were unhappy ? That aint healthy.

 

[DirtyMoney]

I think this problem kills a lot of relationships before they even start. I got a homeboy who was in the exact same situation a few years ago. He met a girl who was an easy lay, one month later he's staying with her, and a year and a half later they gotta kid together. They called it a relationship, but it ain't seem like it from the outside because they didn't have shyt in common and didn't do any of the shyt they liked individually together; they just stuck with it until the infatuation wore off and he just bounced, leaving her completely heartbroken. Seems like you're headed down the path of break up anyway, so I say dead it now, and not just because it's the right thing to do. You gotta think about it like this; if you get you a side chick and she catches you, she's gonna use the courts to fukk you every chance she gets since ya'll got a seed now, and I've seen it happen quite a few times, so keep that in mind.

If/When i bounce imma make sure she's taken care of and the car note and rent paid and all that. We each live our lives and co parent.
I doubt she would get much. My shyts in trust accts. Its administrated by another company that I own that she aint even know of. However the courts always find shyt.

 

[JahFocus CS]

The type of L that takes years off your life

 

[Formerly known as...]

You're a sucker for staying with someone who doesnt excite you at all. Get up and leave or speak to her, she can't stop you from being a father to your child.

 

[DirtyMoney]

The type of L that takes years off your life

18+. Kids are a blessing but gotta be super intelligent with who u procreate with.

 

[DirtyMoney]

You're a sucker for staying with someone who doesnt excite you at all. Get up and leave or speak to her, she can't stop you from being a father to your child.

Bruv. Things are done in the right time. Sole income earner. I gotta set her up before I bounce. I ain't a dummy. You also cannot plan this shyt to a T. You gotta use finesse. We already know it aint working its just courtesy at this point. I believe its mutual.

 

[DJSmooth]

Bruh i am the sole income earner. I aint doin shyt. I work like 12-16 hr days. I need to come home to some exciting shyt.

Women don't bring excitement to a relationship it's your job as a man to do that. However a less boring chick can be found but they come with problems, if you are not up to the task it won't end pretty dating them.

 

[DirtyMoney]

Women don't bring excitement to a relationship it's your job as a man to do that. However a less boring chick can be found but they come with problems, if you are not up to the task it won't end pretty dating them.

Nah some hoes are exciting. They got interesting lives and hobbies. There's only so many trips i can plan, events I can organise and shyt I can come up wiht. I'm doing the real life shyt like paying bills and making sure the house runs smooth/to my liking. The extra should be covered by a partner. After all isn't that where the parnership model is supposed to be beneficial ? i handle the real life shyt and she/a partner handles the entertainment. Ideally.