Relationships are a trap and boring as fukk

[DirtyMoney]

Not in my feelings at all. I don't know you to be in my feelings. Just from reading this shyt on here, you seem to regret having your child, which makes me doubt you can provide any genuine love for your child

Jesus never said that. Read OG post.

Should've thought about all that before you nutted in the bytch

That is a fact.

When you see a new nikka blowing her back out in your house...
Think about you needing excitement

I wouldn't be mad. I would calmly let that be my cue to exit.

 

[360dagod]

Daps to you. Real talk. It aint like i'm snatchin the rug from under ole girls feet and puttin her out in the streets.
I date you to pay a car note, rent and expenses + debts 50k+ for 2 individuals then see the sheer planning, responsibility and execution required to make shyt work.

As long as you are in your child's life as a father on some real shyt, i dont see the issue...like actually being involved with the nurturing part..Not on some half-ass shyt..
Hopefully you and your BM can work shyt out to where she can get out of that "rut"...
I do think you should take every option to help her see the light

Some women tend to use the kid as an 18 year old excuse to stay home and not actually bring something to the table

 

[PeridotPuss]

How is he toxic?


Should he be like Jesse Jackson and get another women pregnant and hide the baby for years..thats toxic

Should he be like Bill Cosby and "roofie"females while fukking..thats toxic

Should he be like MLK and have multiple sidepieces while being a pastor..thats toxic

ALL MARRIED BY THE WAY

Some of the same leaders that get defended on here was slinging dikk with no hesitation...they are toxic because they presented a set of values that they didnt even believe...

Homeboy gonna take care of his and have women on the side..



Monogamy isnt even natural......Ask some of your fathers who cheated


The black man has always had multiple women

OP in here rambling with yall nikkas about the next place to put his dikk. ...but likely aint breathed a word to the human being back home that is fully dependent on him while she currently caring for his newborn

You basically just made a whole post about nikkas not being shyt..... from our "activists" to our own fathers. ...you're lost breh and if monogamy not natural. ...then when did lying to and knocking up these women under the guise of "monogamy" become a-okay? You bytch nikkas talking out both sides of your face. ...

Anything to get that dikk wet I guess but don't act like it deserves respect.....it's fukknikka p*ssy pressed behavior no matter which way you cut it

 

[DirtyMoney]

"ADHD"

nikka got a poster wife and "bored"





You want your girl to be a mom, work, and be exciting


If she's just a boring person, you messed up. Now you waking up day dreaming about side pieces and excitement.

You 30?

In another 2 or 3 years all this excitement BS is gonna pass and all you gonna want is a rider that's loyal.

If you make it that long

My right hand man told me the same he told me that i want this scenario i have in my head but it aint reality and i am not counting my blessings. He then ran through the list of all the triflin hoes I could have ended up with and asked me if I'm winning based on that, to which the answer was yes.

Just hit 30. Prob did do enough hoeing so i can't recognise a good woman but she aint got no IG, barely on fb, no twerkin or hoeing, cooks cleans and gives up the puss anytime or day.. most people would call that a win.. prob a case of thinking the grass is greener on the other side.

 

[The Mad Titan]

Op would have veen better off coming in here and being real.


Clearly he just wants some new.


Wife could be swinging from the ceiling naked and op wouldn't be happy.


Excitement = dat new new

 

[DirtyMoney]

As long as you are in your child's life as a father on some real shyt, i dont see the issue...like actually being involved with the nurturing part..Not on some half-ass shyt..
Hopefully you and your BM can work shyt out to where she can get out of that "rut"...
I do think you should take every option to help her see the light

Some women tend to use the kid as an 18 year old excuse to stay home and not actually bring something to the table

Nah it just was never in her plan to have a high profile career but she kinda got stuck in a rut where no self development is taking place. When she's honest about it she breaks down and cries as she can't figure out what is blocking her but I cannot hold her hand and make her do it cos she doesn't want it enough. comfort.

She's level headed. I'd do what i gotta and the nurturing is high on my list. I wake up extra early and put time aside specifically to ensure i do that daily for/to my kid. Given my work hrs are demanding but that is not debatable.

 

[DirtyMoney]

Op would have veen better off coming in here and being real.


Clearly he just wants some new.


Wife could be swinging from the ceiling naked and op wouldn't be happy.


Excitement = dat new new

I did state i want some new, plus im bored whilst there are additional factors.. hanging from the ceiling woudlnt be interesting cos once u in the p*ssy its some shyt u already been in... so yes.. op wants some new.

 

[DirtyMoney]

OP in here rambling with yall nikkas about the next place to put his dikk. ...but likely aint breathed a word to the human being back home that is fully dependent on him while she currently caring for his newborn

You basically just made a whole post about nikkas not being shyt..... from our "activists" to our own fathers. ...you're lost breh and if monogamy not natural. ...then when did lying to and knocking up these women under the guise of "monogamy" become a-okay? You bytch nikkas talking out both sides of your face. ...

Anything to get that dikk wet I guess but don't act like it deserves respect.....it's fukknikka p*ssy pressed behavior no matter which way you cut it

Lets keep it G. You think your dad never stepped out on your mum ? Some nikkas do it on the sly and some just give their partner space to find happiness whilst they figure out what they want.

 

[Raava]

nikka shame on you, you a pressed for p*ssy ass fukk

I don't respect this bullshyt you talking ...nikkas like you toxic to the wellbeing of our race and community

Rambling first thing in the damn morning about your imaginary rotation of side pieces

If this is your definition of handling shyt the best way you can your dumb decision making thirsty ass should have never become a father or took on any dependants

You're an irresponsible child breh point blank you need a daddy

And he is supposed to be 30

Anyway something about this whole thread is off to me. I don't really believe it.

 

[DirtyMoney]

And he is supposed to be 30

Anyway something about this whole thread is off to me. I don't really believe it.

Damn you all really want fairytales about happy homes and shyt..
Being 30 means what exactly ? Man you can be 30,40,50 and unsatisfied

 

[Kenny WRLD]

Make plans bruh

 

[DirtyMoney]

Make plans bruh

If i keep hearing this then only thing is to do it. Seems like it falls on me.

 

[homiedontplaydat]

Sounds like ur a little boy who isn't ready to be a man yet

 

[Lady.Libra.]

Thats nonesense. You in ya feelings. How does coparenting make one a bad parent. Lets be reality. Marriage doesn't work. Its more responsible to step aside and split amicably whilst handling my responsibilities as a parent and living a life that doesn't negatively impact her(ie having other women in my life).

Now you are making some type of sense.
But until you can put this plan into action why not hold off on the married chic and 5 side pieces?

 

[360dagod]

Nah it just was never in her plan to have a high profile career but she kinda got stuck in a rut where no self development is taking place. When she's honest about it she breaks down and cries as she can't figure out what is blocking her but I cannot hold her hand and make her do it cos she doesn't want it enough. comfort.

She's level headed. I'd do what i gotta and the nurturing is high on my list. I wake up extra early and put time aside specifically to ensure i do that daily for/to my kid. Given my work hrs are demanding but that is not debatable.

Well..

You might have to hold her hand..She just came off a baby..

how old is she?