Relationships are a trap and boring as fukk

[Booker T Garvey]

cliff notes: got my bm pregnant like 15 months ago. i love my seed but cot damn a nikka is bored as fukk.. i need like 5 side chicks to balance this sheer fukking boredom. I'm 30, what have i done lol.. sole bread winner rightchea but this shyt is for the birds.

this is basically why chris rock said he divorced his wife

Male monogamy isnt even natural..
We are going against nature
It even tells you that in the history books..
Monogamy is some bullshyt cac concept...thats why it dont work..
Cacs ruin everything...

I completely agree that manogamy is unnatural b/c it is.
any man that is settled down, married, and with ONE woman, does so because he CHOOSES to

every time i cheated on my girl i felt guilty, but that shyt didn't feel "unnatural" at all.

however, marriage is not some CAC shyt

people all over the world get married, even in undeveloped third world countries

 

[DirtyMoney]

So sex is the major component in what you want in life. Why be in a relationship with your baby's mom? Just to financially support her? I don't get it? Can't you do that with paying child support? It doesn't sound like there's much else there besides "boring" sex and stability for the child. Do you love her (sex aside)?

No love. Not in a negative mean way but real talk we aint compatible. Im an extrovert and she's an introvert. Some would say we balance each other being that we are the exact opposite of each other but we got diff tastes in food, music everything.

 

[newworldafro]

So basically OP just gone contribute to the cycle of more black babies in unwed households. Gotcha :sleep:

 

[BrehWyatt]

No love. Not in a negative mean way but real talk we aint compatible. Im an extrovert and she's an introvert. Some would say we balance each other being that we are the exact opposite of each other but we got diff tastes in food, music everything.

And yet you just still with her breh? Parents don't have to be an item in order to effectively raise a child, breh. Break up with her.

 

[DatBoiHawk]

Damn homie

 

[The Mad Titan]

Alot of things don't feel unnatural that's unnatural.


This logic

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

Hoes are fun. You don't have a hoe. So, idk what to tell you...

 

[the bossman]

Male monogamy isnt even natural..
We are going against nature
It even tells you that in the history books..
Monogamy is some bullshyt cac concept...thats why it dont work..
Cacs ruin everything...

lol what kind of logic is this?

nothing we do is 'natural'. going to watch a movie is not 'natural'. ironing your clothes is not 'natural'.

marriage is the most basic fabrics of society. if it ain't for you just say marriage aint for you. aint nothin wrong with that. but it works

 

[010101]

do what you please
but please stop tryna police how others move
being monogamous is not a default it's just the most common choice

*

 

[010101]

they're a lot of shyte individuals in monogamous relationships
& married individuals who are terrible parents

the reverse is also true some people just prefer to be honest about how sexual attraction works
so they don't cuff themselves up

relationship status is not an indicator of character
but it does seem that so called monogamous people love to defame others talk shyt and lie about the dirt they do

live and let live

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[jwonder]

cliff notes: got my bm pregnant like 15 months ago. i love my seed but cot damn a nikka is bored as fukk.. i need like 5 side chicks to balance this sheer fukking boredom. I'm 30, what have i done lol.. sole bread winner rightchea but this shyt is for the birds.

Blame yourself for putting a baby in her. That is the only reason why you trapped. I don't say a relationship is a trap at all. You can get the fukk on anytime you feel it. Now if you are talking about marriage, than that is what is truly boring and a trap. Females have the power in a marriage. The man always gets fukked in divorce. Plus people tend to keep themselves on point more when in a relationship because they know their partner can leave them freely.


I'm 38 and will never get married or have kids. I've decided awhile back that I have way too much fun without the pressure and drama of that.

 

[010101]

real talk nikkas gotta stop trapping themselves
you know you not bout it don't cuff yourself up

scared to keep it a buck with these women you fukking up

*

 

[010101]

and if you got the money for it a child ain't a burden
just be there when your brat needs you that's a simple thing

there's a lot of anger in here boy woooooooooooooooooo

*

 

[010101]

we all need to be better people*

 

[Rawtid]

this is basically why chris rock said he divorced his wife



I completely agree that manogamy is unnatural b/c it is.
any man that is settled down, married, and with ONE woman, does so because he CHOOSES to

every time i cheated on my girl i felt guilty, but that shyt didn't feel "unnatural" at all.

however, marriage is not some CAC shyt

people all over the world get married, even in undeveloped third world countries

So "guilt" is your natural state of being? Scumbag ass nikka.