Relationships/Marry members of the coli: Is the person you with now the best sex you ever had?

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

 

[Mowgli]

Probably number 2.

If that box stay wet for 500 miles and she always down to catch a pound. Ur ahead of the married curve

If you hearing the word no as it relates to her married duties, ur in trouble

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

 

[HarlemHottie]

Okay Harlem, you wanna have this convo, so let's have it. And maybe this deserves to be it's own thread, but my issue with women is that yall cant take criticism AT ALL. Yall got no problem letting us know if we ain't hittin it right but if we tell yall, hey suck it better or do this or that or even lose weight cause if you don't, we lose attraction, all hell breaks loose. So I'm with you, sex is a need. But I'm not going to break up with you for it if everything else is there because finding a good, loyal woman with her head on straight is few and far in between. But if you dont stay on your A game, you cant fault me if this sexy ting threw it at me at work today and this thing stay hard cause you ain't doing what you supposed to do, and I'm getting really tempted to jump in this new over here.

Wtf, son, that ain't the conversation im having.

Nothing you said even makes sense to me. I don't know that messy life. My man don't threaten me with whores and i keep it right and tight.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Wtf, son, that ain't the conversation im having.

Nothing you said even makes sense to me. I don't know that messy life. My man don't threaten me with whores and i keep it right and tight.

I'm talking about the fact that you're saying sexual compatibility should be a make or break for a relationship.

No man threatens a woman. I'm telling you how we feel on the inside.

 

[HarlemHottie]

I'm talking about the fact that you're saying sexual compatibility should be a make or break for a relationship.

No man threatens a woman. I'm telling you how we feel on the inside.

I think you're misunderstanding the meaning of sexual compatibility. It's not 'sexual attraction' (which can be lost, as you said, through weight gain or a bad hair cut or w/e). Compatibility means that, IF you're having sex with them, its prolly gon be great (minus off days).

Maintaining attraction in a ltr is a whole different topic, but it necessitates a partner with the good sense to know that attraction must be maintained. A lot of ppl (men AND women ) think the shyt is magic, or you 'fall in love' and don't have to 'work' no more. fukk that. We work on all our relationships, why not the most important?

On a personal note, why don't these women already know your standards?

 

[Yo Mama]

Shows that a majority of people who are married or are in relationships for comfort, companionship (fear of being alone) and convenience over compatibility and connections. That’s why a lot of people cheat - excitement, passion and sexual energy that they don’t get at home. People sound bored or like they’re going through the motions

interesting thread because I was expecting to see a lot of “yes” definitive answers

Coz eventually you will get bored with having sex with the same person over and over. So even if the sex was so great when you got together it will eventually become boring.

Then you become nostalgic about old p*ssy/dikk which you will probably "remember" as being better than you think it was.

It takes work to keep relationships alive

 

[SuaveyBoi115]

I never fisted her.She showed me videos of her getting fisted.Woman of many faces.Worked as a UPS driver, massage therapist,

and sold Viagra on the side at the same time.Also shot porn(Solo porn, tho...Supposedly) whenever she needed some quick cash.

I never really investigated the porn thing.Never asked any questions about it.I didn't really give a fukk.I wasn't trying to be in a relationship

with her.We just a had a sexual chemistry that set the bedroom on fire.Honestly, she was a very humane person.Intelligent.Hard working.

Had just bought her own house.On the surface, she'd seem like a good catch....But there was a catch.She was a lil neurotic.What I'd label

as a hypochondriac.She swore up and down that she had a brain tumor.Even when the docs told her she was fine, she wouldn't believe

them.She'd actually get pissed and accuse the docs of conspiring against her.Started a non profit brain tumor org on Facebook.Had T shirts

and everything.Confessed to me that it was the reason she went "YOLO".She wanted to live out all her inhibitions because she felt like her

days were numbered.Sex became like a drug to her.She even referred to sex as "medicine".She'd hit me up at 2 am in the morning saying

"I need some medicine....." Having an orgasm is how she coped with the stress.Personally, I never told her, but I'm on the doctors side.

I didn't think there was anything wrong with her.She was 110% convinced, tho....So I never really spoke on it.All I know is, the puzzy was a

problem.It was some good stuff.I remember one time we did "lazy dog"(doggystyle, but letting the chick do all the work) at the edge of the bed.

Me standing on the outside of the bed, and just letting her go to town.It's actually a good technique to figure out the angles, speed, rhythm a chick

likes to be stroked at.On top of that, she was an ex dancer.Classically trained.Could move her body in some really exotic ways.You ever have

the puzzy get so good to the point you start losing your eyesight?Like shyt starts to fade & darken as if you're about to die, but it's the opposite

of death? Breh the lazy dog was so good, In my mind, I was thinking about which sex rehab I was going to check myself into.I ended up having

to go see a urologist.She made me cum so hard(no pull out.She had that IUD shyt), the impact of my skeet created a small tare in my pee hole.

Shyt was nuts.Literally

I wanna dancer chick so bad

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

Yes I already told her it enrages me that other dudes got to experience her. It made me borderline possessive, I had to reel myself back in and ground myself, cause I started having liteskin moments

You spoke the truth right there.

 

[levitate]

Gotta go with a girlfriend back in college...petite Chinese chick. Flexible, pick-up/able, p*ssy was so fukking tight and had GOAT texture.

Thinking back to when I lifted her up on the bathroom sink...,LAWD...

 

[pimpineasy]

I want to clarify one thing.
Best sex is probably with my wife.
But best box isn't.
The top 3 box ive ever had brings a tear to my eye.

I'm talking box so good you don't even have to move.

 

[Lamar Givens]

Shows that a majority of people who are married or are in relationships for comfort, companionship (fear of being alone) and convenience over compatibility and connections. That’s why a lot of people cheat - excitement, passion and sexual energy that they don’t get at home. People sound bored or like they’re going through the motions

interesting thread because I was expecting to see a lot of “yes” definitive answers

As someone who has had a ton of sex with a lot of women as you get older and MATURE you realize you can live life without sex.

Sex is not a necessity in life like food, air, and water.

My wife’s best qualities have nothing to do with her physical sexual abilities which is way more important to me than her vaginal canal.

In my time counseling married couples who claimed to have outstanding sex and chemistry with each other they still found themselves unfulfilled in life and cheating on each other.

Not to mention all it takes is one devastating calamity in life, for example, the loss of a child, debilitating illness, devastating disability etc, these little Disney fairy tales women try to live out and concoct will fall apart at the seams.

People cheat and use the excuse that they were unfulfilled sexually when in reality they are just an ain’t shyt person trying to justify their immoral behavior .

 

[MR. SNIFLES]

NOPE. NOT EVEN CLOSE.

 

[Lamar Givens]

But we got here through sex. We was just supposed to be fukking.

I honestly dont think ppl prioritize sex enough in choosing long term partners. Think about it. The most basic priorities in life are food, shelter, and sex. Why choose a relationship where you gotta go outside of it for priorities? Hustling backwards. Literally planning to have problems.

You just better pray to whatever God you believe in that you don’t experience some devastating illness or disability because that is when you are going to find out the real character of this man you keep boasting about.

Life is all good until you get that life wake up call in the form of a calamity. That’s when the real person you think you know comes out.

 

[Taadow]

“Best” is a tricky word.