Yes, a lot of that going on. Some people have no idea how to be happy alone and peer pressure along with society drives them into whatever satisfies their desires no matter it right or wrong.
Relationships seem to just be about doing a lot of shyt you don’t want to do..
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Yes, a lot of that going on. Some people have no idea how to be happy alone and peer pressure along with society drives them into whatever satisfies their desires no matter it right or wrong.
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I'd say it really depends where youre at at life
nothing wrong with having in-house p*ssy if you like her vibe and know how to handle the situation instead of her having to pimp you out
Chase Respect, not love, the first one is everlasting the second is volatile and conditional, be a stand up dude regardless, that's my take yall ain't gotta agree tho
Very true... But there are a couple problems.
Her vibe versus the bullshyt that u gotta compromise with... They are almost never equal.
In ur situation are u handling it and not being moved how u don't want to?( I didn't wanna say pimped out lol)
And one thing I thinks Trump's all things... I personally don't think men naturally want to be with just one women. Even if it's not fukking, we wanna be around and enjoy the company of different females we are attracted to.
That's the biggest compromise and sacrifice that u, as a man, have to mentally come to terms with. That suffocating feeling of wanting to go be with some NEW, different p*ssy, but u gotta sit there and entertain this same ole p*ssy in ur house
A1aaa
Respectful Fade Runner & Card Puller
This is my life.
Thankfully I have escorts and side chics to scratch that itch from time to time.
ThisNo disrepect but ur perspective will always be a lil fukked up because ur a woman... Ur life is filled with illusions because most ppl aren't honest with u...
Ur saying that relationships are about compromise... But men usually are the ones sacrificing and compromising all the time in relationships... Thats what everyone in this thread are saying... If I had a thousand men in a room... 900 of them would be saying the same thing... 50 of them would be lying and the other 50 are the no good nikkaz bytches be taking care of (my numbers are a bit off but u get it lol)
And ur last paragraph is the most important part about ur perspective... U said that u and ur partner did things that both y'all wanted to do... Or he did things that you wanted to do, And he enjoyed himself...
I'ma just make this face on thatlol
If he smiled thru shopping with u at bed bath and beyond and told u he was having a good time, that's him compromising and sacrificing for ur feelings...
It's not about being with the wrong person... This is just what it is when dealing with women. If u had a dikk u would know ( again, no disrepect)
This thread is a good time to just listen to men vent, sis
I'm 33 and i'm talking to/cavorting with like 7 diff chicks at the moment
"In that day so few men will be left that seven women will fight for each man, saying, "Let us all marry you! We will provide our own food and clothing. Only let us take your name so we won't be mocked as old maids.""
Keeps my mind fresh and keeps me having the power. Diversify your stocks in this day and age, if I don't feel like hanging out I say no, the worst thing a chick can do to me is drop off and then I just delete and someone else fills her spot.
I was hanging out with a chick yesterday and she got a phone call I could hear it was a guys voice and she was on the phone for like 10 min during that time i was just texting my other chicks who messaged me, when she got off the phone she was like sorry im so sorry does this bother you and I said nah
. She said if I did it, it would bother her 
If all I had was one option it would prob bother me and i'd feel jealous or some simp ish but ow do you brehette
btw im not saying be a player and play with a womans heart or anything but I'm single I can do what I want and I expect the women to do it as well
To many rules and regulations and ups and downs when your in a relationship, when your not
When your in a relationship and your girl calls you feel the urge to pick up etc.When girls call me now if i dont feel like answering I won't
Saying No is the one thing every man should learn to do, i used to be a yes man back in the day afraid I'd get them upset or just to avoid confrontation. Now?
"In that day so few men will be left that seven women will fight for each man, saying, "Let us all marry you! We will provide our own food and clothing. Only let us take your name so we won't be mocked as old maids.""
Keeps my mind fresh and keeps me having the power. Diversify your stocks in this day and age, if I don't feel like hanging out I say no, the worst thing a chick can do to me is drop off and then I just delete and someone else fills her spot.
I was hanging out with a chick yesterday and she got a phone call I could hear it was a guys voice and she was on the phone for like 10 min during that time i was just texting my other chicks who messaged me, when she got off the phone she was like sorry im so sorry does this bother you and I said nah
. She said if I did it, it would bother her If all I had was one option it would prob bother me and i'd feel jealous or some simp ish but ow do you brehette
btw im not saying be a player and play with a womans heart or anything but I'm single I can do what I want and I expect the women to do it as well
To many rules and regulations and ups and downs when your in a relationship, when your not
When your in a relationship and your girl calls you feel the urge to pick up etc.When girls call me now if i dont feel like answering I won't
Saying No is the one thing every man should learn to do, i used to be a yes man back in the day afraid I'd get them upset or just to avoid confrontation. Now?
Big block of guys want to lay around, watch sports, drink, smoke and play video games when they aren’t working....or maybe catch up with their friends.
Big block of women want to spent time with their significant other, go shopping, go to restaurants, decorate their home and plan on what they don’t have in their lives yet.
I’ve been married 12 years and we don’t want to do the same thing all the damn time....so it’s not always about the perfect match with all the same shared interests...it’s about how much shyt that you like do you get to do still and how much shyt do you do but don’t like?
As long as that ratio is somewhere around the 50/50 mark, it’s not really a problem, it’s called a relationship.
Big block of women want to spent time with their significant other, go shopping, go to restaurants, decorate their home and plan on what they don’t have in their lives yet.
I’ve been married 12 years and we don’t want to do the same thing all the damn time....so it’s not always about the perfect match with all the same shared interests...it’s about how much shyt that you like do you get to do still and how much shyt do you do but don’t like?
As long as that ratio is somewhere around the 50/50 mark, it’s not really a problem, it’s called a relationship.
As I mentioned above I'm talking to a lot of women at the moment and the message that has come across many times is striking and startling to me, everyone of em had a great nice sweet guy they were with for years no cheating, abuse infidelity, checked all their checkboxes just one day they woke up and didn't "feel it anymore"
Even if you do it all good these chicks are still going off emotions so hell do what you want to do
I'm lowkey tripping on how it's been 6 pages of whining about a chick thats "not even his girl" :loldenzel2:
That nikka luh her, he just too scared to admit it
As I mentioned above I'm talking to a lot of women at the moment and the message that has come across many times is striking and startling to me, everyone of em had a great nice sweet guy they were with for years no cheating, abuse infidelity, checked all their checkboxes just one day they woke up and didn't "feel it anymore"
Even if you do it all good these chicks are still going off emotions so hell do what you want to do
Drop them gems breh
