I'm a black man and I'm halfway joking but, I'll explain the difference between how I treat a racist white girl in ways a black women cannot do in the reverse.
When I say I wouldn't mind dating her for 20 mins.. I me a beating Julz up, choking her until she can scarce breath, making her pray for forgiveness, taking all her money, jewellery and giving it to Coli bros, making her crawl, etc. In other words, treating her like a piece of abused meat until my friends (black and white) are done with her, then dumping her over the side of the ship like an overused dish rag. Like the Iron born do saltwives in Game of Thrones.
Why waste good meat in haste? No no no