Reverse Marriage Proposal Gone Wrong. Get Married Brehettes

[Blown Moon]

That's what she gets. Refer to @Uachet post. He's 100% right.

The dude will get shyt for his reaction but the chick's actions were disgusting and she deserved every bit of that embarrassment.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

THE COLI DOT COM

 

[Peachstate]

That's what her dumb ass gets.

 

[Ineedmoney504]

Y’all believe anything lol. Grow up on social media and not understand fake shyt brehs

 

[blues_funk_reggae]

Maybe if she lost that weight she would have men proposing to her instead.

 

[rabbid]

Now she know she shouldn't have her big ass on the floor like that. Her knees aint never been in a situation with that level of stress. Breh had to look at the DJ and tell him to play Usher one more time cause they are purely Lovers & Friends. She still happy to have him around so it is what it is. There's a sucker born every day.

Plus a proposal should be like a birthday gift. You know its coming to you, its been discussed or hinted, just don't know exactly what or when. Shouldn't never be any guessing if its gonna be a yes or no.

 

[NaijaProdigy Redux]

I could never turn down a marriage proposal in public.

Of course there's the "cringe" of a woman proposing to a man but I'd say yes, then let her down privately.

Yup. Some people are void of empathetic decency. Or rather, emotional intelligence is probably a better term to describe what dude is missing.

I mean I get what you guys are saying but marriage and a timeline should have already been discussed ahead of the question. Noone should actually be that surprised when their significant other proposes - and the one proposing should already know the answer.

Saying yes just because it’s in public feels like emotional blackmail - particularly if the topic hadn’t been broached and agreed upon

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

If he wanted to marry her, he would have proposed. This looks like they hadn’t even discussed it, and aren’t that serious.

And, she’s fat.

 

[xXOGLEGENDXx]

Her friends really ain't shiit.



She probably told them about it and they hyped her up knowing they themselves would never do that bullshiit.

Then they were fake hyping her up while she was doing it.

Then they decided to post it for everybody to see.


Women really are their own worst enemies

 

[AquaCityBoy]

 

[JoelB]

Be surprised when you emasculate your man in public brehettes

 

[Knuckles Red]

He should have said "yes," and married her. Its rude that he did not. In the end, she'll find someone worthy of her proposal.

 

[TallMan_J]

The reason why the proposal is made in public when they have no clue if the person wanted marriage is to force the one who receives the proposal into a situation that makes them look bad if they reject the proposal. It is a manipulation tactic.

The truth is that the discussion about marriage should have already happened multiple times, and the person preparing to propose should already know that the answer will be yes before the public proposal is made. The public proposal is just suppose to be an open declaration of their love and move towards marriage for everyone else who does not know, it is not suppose to be the time you find out if marriage is on the table or not. That question should already be answered before the public is brought into it.

So no, rejecting a proposal in public when it was not agreed to already in private is not some low emotional EQ act or the person being devoid of empathy. It is instead not allowing the person to emotionally blackmail you into accepting something, in this case marriage, you never agreed to in the first place. Like I said before, it is a manipulation tactic, hoping you will not allow them to look bad in public and so in turn hoping to force you into accepting something you never stated you wanted.

Just because a woman made the proposal does not change anything I wrote above.

After living together for about two years, my wife admitted to me that she wanted to get married and have a family. I contemplated on it for a few weeks after she told me that. Talked to my parents about it, just to get their input.

I then proposed to my wife in our bedroom one random morning while watching TV. Nothing romantic or extravagant about it at all. Got married in Vegas later that year. No big expensive event that would put us $50k in debt. Just us two in Vegas and at The Cosmopolitan for a few days. Been happily married for ten years.

People make a big deal out of proposals, rings, engagements, weddings etc. All of the unimportant shyt. Many of whom end up divorced a couple of years later anyway.

 

[The ADD]

After living together for about two years, my wife admitted to me that she wanted to get married and have a family. I contemplated on it for a few weeks after she told me that. Talked to my parents about it, just to get their input.

I then proposed to my wife in our bedroom one random morning while watching TV. Nothing romantic or extravagant about it at all. Got married in Vegas later that year. No big expensive event that would put us $50k in debt. Just us two in Vegas and at The Cosmopolitan for a few days. Been happily married for ten years.

People make a big deal out of proposals, rings, engagements, weddings etc. All of the unimportant shyt. Many of whom end up divorced a couple of years later anyway.

That just depends on the couple. It can have importance and not be bad thing

 

[Seoul Gleou]

Dj...DJ!!