RNS: When has it ever paid off being the "Nice Guy"

JLova

Veteran
Supporter
Joined
May 6, 2012
Messages
60,022
Reputation
4,572
Daps
182,260
:manny: same thing to me, neither of em get p*ssy

So only a$$holes get p*ssy? Some a yall stay exposing your lack of female interaction. "bad boys" will always have that certain mystique about them, but no broad worth anything wants to be with a disrespectful a$$hole.

Stop crying over women who aint shyt.
 

Just like bruddas

Couple shooters in the cut.
Supporter
Joined
May 1, 2012
Messages
24,803
Reputation
4,187
Daps
51,664
So only a$$holes get p*ssy? Some a yall stay exposing your lack of female interaction. "bad boys" will always have that certain mystique about them, but no broad worth anything wants to be with a disrespectful a$$hole.

Stop crying over women who aint shyt.

Basically man, These same lame ass nikkas who talk bout they dont save women are the same ones chasing these hoes that aint shyt and have the nerve to get upset and bitter bout it. These chicks that want the bad boys and thugs are the bytches that yall need to avoid but yet they still simp.


If u ask me yall suffer from the same bad boy syndrome but instead with women. Im pretty sure a some of these guys have came across some fine women but either she was too nice or wasnt giving up the puss easy like the hoodrats chicks.


Once again this jewel will go notice but someone will read with and :mindblown::whoo:
 

Thatrogueassdiaz

We're on the blood path now
Joined
May 2, 2012
Messages
29,190
Reputation
4,378
Daps
51,787
Reppin
Center self, inner self
the thing about being a nice guy is you have to capitalize on the (good) opportunities when they come, and you need to be aware of them when they happen. i think that's the difference between someone who actually is just cool with a lot of women and someone who concentrates of just fukking them and not being cool with a whole bunch of them. i would consider myself of this realm (nice guy). it'll get you a lot of play, but if you don't capitalize on it, it's worthless. you have to recognize when a woman is actually putting herself out there. it's not hard to do either, if you're being nonchalant about things. the real struggle comes when you try to get hooked up and you're nonchalant about it. there's so many women i've dealt with in a nonchalant type of manner that i've could have hooked up with. it was never a "close but no cigar" matter either, some women have either blatantly put it out there or have given so many signals that they were down to fukk.

like, i can think of one personal instance in particular. on sunday, i was playing my gig and i met these two women from austin, a mother and daughter, even though they didn't look like it. the mother was all in my face asking for my number, trying to be my facebook friend, trying to go to some other places to listen to some music, telling me to come to austin and i could stay with her, play some places, etc. we talked for a good half an hour and she kept feeding me drinks. honestly, i could see that she was down but i wasn't sure about pursuing her because she was talking about how she had a boyfriend and shyt. now a guy that's not nice wouldn't give a shyt about that. but seeing how i am nice, i was reluctant. that's generally the situations i face. there's always a little hitch that makes me not want to do things because of my value system. i should have did it, but i didn't out of respect.

i say the advantage to being a nice guy is you'll get a lot of women to approach you. the only difficulty is knowing when to switch gears...

:sadbron:

This has been the story of my life. Some people are born with demons, and this is the one I've had to battle with. In college I missed a lot of opportunities.

What you didn't mention is how women feed on genuinely good men. I bet a lot of those situations you were in you were asked to do some shady shyt.

shyt, I remember when this one bad italian girl at my school wanted me to call her between certain times so that her man wouldn't catch us. I'm a "nice" guy, but I've fukked or "talked" to so many married women/women in relationships. All of them put it out there for me; I wasn't doing shyt but being me. I'm in a fukked up relationship right now because of the mistakes I made with these type of women.

Last year I gave up that bullshyt and went out every weekend so I could find a good, single woman, but that shyt is hard work. Not saying I've only messed with women in relationships; I'm saying that I fall back on that when I'm not feeling my dating life--it's much easier.

So yeah, being nice does have its advantages and disadvantages. Don't ever think really nice men don't get p*ssy because one of those nice guys will fukk your woman, TRUST when I tell you that. It's just nice men have a lot of obstacles when it comes to dealing with women.

By the way, I truly think young women think that nice guys can't fukk. I think that's the only reason a lot of nice guys don't get p*ssy like they should.
 

Just like bruddas

Couple shooters in the cut.
Supporter
Joined
May 1, 2012
Messages
24,803
Reputation
4,187
Daps
51,664
the thing about being a nice guy is you have to capitalize on the (good) opportunities when they come, and you need to be aware of them when they happen. i think that's the difference between someone who actually is just cool with a lot of women and someone who concentrates of just fukking them and not being cool with a whole bunch of them. i would consider myself of this realm (nice guy). it'll get you a lot of play, but if you don't capitalize on it, it's worthless. you have to recognize when a woman is actually putting herself out there. it's not hard to do either, if you're being nonchalant about things. the real struggle comes when you try to get hooked up and you're nonchalant about it. there's so many women i've dealt with in a nonchalant type of manner that i've could have hooked up with. it was never a "close but no cigar" matter either, some women have either blatantly put it out there or have given so many signals that they were down to fukk.

like, i can think of one personal instance in particular. on sunday, i was playing my gig and i met these two women from austin, a mother and daughter, even though they didn't look like it. the mother was all in my face asking for my number, trying to be my facebook friend, trying to go to some other places to listen to some music, telling me to come to austin and i could stay with her, play some places, etc. we talked for a good half an hour and she kept feeding me drinks. honestly, i could see that she was down but i wasn't sure about pursuing her because she was talking about how she had a boyfriend and shyt. now a guy that's not nice wouldn't give a shyt about that. but seeing how i am nice, i was reluctant. that's generally the situations i face. there's always a little hitch that makes me not want to do things because of my value system. i should have did it, but i didn't out of respect.

i say the advantage to being a nice guy is you'll get a lot of women to approach you. the only difficulty is knowing when to switch gears...

fukk with the right women then u would never have too. A real woman would love the way you treat and respect her. They could never get enough love and attention. Hoes on the other hand will get tried of the same nice shyt and look for a nikka that pays her no mind and just play her out whenever he gets the chance. See the difference.

Chicks i fukk with are good decent women and i treat them how they wanna be treat. i mean what is so hard bout understanding this simple math? Its not fukkin rocket science :snoop:
 

Just like bruddas

Couple shooters in the cut.
Supporter
Joined
May 1, 2012
Messages
24,803
Reputation
4,187
Daps
51,664
:sadbron:

This has been the story of my life. Some people are born with demons, and this is the one I've had to battle with. In college I missed a lot of opportunities.

What you didn't mention is how women feed on genuinely good men. I bet a lot of those situations you were in you were asked to do some shady shyt.

shyt, I remember when this one bad italian girl at my school wanted me to call her between certain times so that her man wouldn't catch us. I'm a "nice" guy, but I've fukked or "talked" to so many married women/women in relationships. All of them put it out there for me; I wasn't doing shyt but being me. I'm in a fukked up relationship right now because of the mistakes I made with these type of women.

Last year I gave up that bullshyt and went out every weekend so I could find a good, single woman, but that shyt is hard work. Not saying I've only messed with women in relationships; I'm saying that I fall back on that when I'm not feeling my dating life--it's much easier.

So yeah, being nice does have its advantages and disadvantages. Don't ever think really nice men don't get p*ssy because one of those nice guys will fukk your woman, TRUST when I tell you that. It's just nice men have a lot of obstacles when it comes to dealing with women.

By the way, I truly think young women think that nice guys can't fukk. I think that's the only reason a lot of nice guys don't get p*ssy like they should.




Nah it cuz them nikkas are too busy showering them with gifts just to fukk and their not stupid. Im a nice young brother and not to sound like a playa but if i wanna fukk a woman 8/10 i can do. But I have boundaries and i wont front they cock block the shyt of me but thats their purpose. I know what type of woman i want and what type i need and i make sure they are want i desire. I just dont go chasing after hoes that aint shyt, when u do that then u are missing out on the good women that will improve your life and in most cases even wife.

Basically all im saying is step your game up and live them no good hoes alone and fine a nice woman that will love and appreciate everything u do for her and will return it back 100 fold
 

Thatrogueassdiaz

We're on the blood path now
Joined
May 2, 2012
Messages
29,190
Reputation
4,378
Daps
51,787
Reppin
Center self, inner self
[/B]


Nah it cuz them nikkas are too busy showering them with gifts just to fukk and their not stupid. Im a nice young brother and not to sound like a playa but if i wanna fukk a woman 8/10 i can do. But I have boundaries and i wont front they cock block the shyt of me but thats their purpose. I know what type of woman i want and what type i need and i make sure they are want i desire. I just dont go chasing after hoes that aint shyt, when u do that then u are missing out on the good women that will improve your life and in most cases even wife.

Basically all im saying is step your game up and live them no good hoes alone and fine a nice woman that will love and appreciate everything u do for her and will return it back 100 fold

I agree with this :yes:


It took me a long time to figure this out.

But the part about the gifts--those aren't nice guys, nor the guys I'm talking about
 

1thouwow

Poster of the Year
Joined
Jul 20, 2012
Messages
26,344
Reputation
-210
Daps
72,834
So only a$$holes get p*ssy? Some a yall stay exposing your lack of female interaction. "bad boys" will always have that certain mystique about them, but no broad worth anything wants to be with a disrespectful a$$hole.

Stop crying over women who aint shyt.

fukk out my thread u butthurt canadian simp.. :umad:
 

L&HH

Veteran
Joined
May 18, 2012
Messages
53,504
Reputation
5,890
Daps
162,366
Reppin
PG x MD
Yall truly are slaves to p*ssy.

If you're trying to be nice to get something in return then....you're not nice.

Being a nice, respectful dude is not the same as a spineless simp.

co mother fukking sign, i try to relay shyt like this to one of my cousins but dat nikka is just. everything in his life seems to be predicated on getting "bytches" and "p*ssy" :snoop:, like nikka have som life goals or something
 

JLova

Veteran
Supporter
Joined
May 6, 2012
Messages
60,022
Reputation
4,572
Daps
182,260
fukk out my thread u butthurt canadian simp.. :umad:

I'm not the one crying about p*ssy from bottom tier women. :to:

As for the "settling down" shyt. That happens to everyone. Why no talk of the players you look up to settling down in their 30's... It's called maturity. Your ego is going to ruin you and prevent you from finding true happiness because you overthink everything. Yall hate hoes but desire them at the same time. shyt makes no damn sense. It's always the same nikkaz who claim to be falling into p*ssy who keep complaining about broads. Who are yall fooling?
 

Habit

Banned
Joined
Jun 14, 2012
Messages
820
Reputation
5
Daps
270
Also, nice guys don't want good girls. So, they do it to themselves. They should go after women that don't care about charisma, confidence, or assertiveness.

Nice guys be trying to break out their shell and at the same time chasing women. :laugh:
 
Top