Rolling Solo Is Extremely Overrated

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I used to glamorize that shyt. Getting money on my own, hanging out by myself, and fukking a few shorties here and there
Being by yourself is not a lifestyle. Its an inherent disadvantage, that comes from the fact that some of us are stubborn enough to think we know everything

Maybe some dudes been following the bandwagon and can't think for themselves. But thats a small problem compared to living in a reality determined by your own fears and values. Im done with that, Ive got to check up on the homies more often and the fam too
 
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If you like me, you got a bunch of friends you see every once in a while. The problem with that is when you really feeling yourself, you can say fukk everyone Im trying to get this money

I'm 35. I'm divorced. Had petty beefs with childhood friends. I moved to a new city by myself 3 years ago.

My circle now is tight. I have probably a dozen acquaintances I can roll out with, but I truly only have 4 solid friends that aren't family, and even those friends I keep at arms length now.

I've been focused on my career, my side business, to a lesser extent my girl and I'm playing with the idea of going back to school.

That's all I'm worried about for the immediate future.
 

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kinda sucks when you wanna go out and do fun shyt. All my homies left the city so im mostly by myself and work go a breh busy AF!
 

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Rolling solo isn't ideal, but at the same time I won't risk my job or lose things I've obtained, because someone decides not to conduct themselves like an adult.

I had associate, tell me I'm his " boy" while lying to me about a situation all in the same breathe.

That is a mentally dangerous individual. Not worth the risk

I'll be cordial, polite etc etc to you. But you staying at arms length

Friends are for little kids
 

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As I get older my circle is getting smaller and smaller. I'm still cool with nikkas but see no need to roll with a "squad" anymore.
 

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I used to glamorize that shyt. Getting money on my own, hanging out by myself, and fukking a few shorties here and there
Being by yourself is not a lifestyle. Its an inherent disadvantage, that comes from the fact that some of us are stubborn enough to think we know everything

Maybe some dudes been following the bandwagon and can't think for themselves. But thats a small problem compared to living in a reality determined by your own fears and values. Im done with that, Ive got to check up on the homies more often and the fam too


Depends. It actually takes more will and discipline to foreclose on your past and keep it moving.
 
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