This might surprise a few of the people ITT because I've given a lot of people the wrong idea about me because of my harsh criticism of modern feminism (no, it's not the same thing as criticizing women), but I think that it's a really bad idea to paint women with such a broad brush like that. Yes, there are many women that are illogical, flighty, manipulative, etc, but there are a couple things that you have to remember: first, that there are men out there like this, too, and second, there are a good chunk of women that aren't. I would have a seriously hard time believing you if you told me that all the men you've met in your life have never fit the mold that I just described to you. I also think that there's a good chance that you should probably looking for women in new places if the ones you're meeting aren't doing it for you.
To get women to act the way you might idealize them to you have to act like what you would imagine an ideal man to act like. I've seen your other posts. If what you say about yourself is true, you're a successful guy and you could probably make waves if you tweaked a few things and got certain things right. Women don't act like the way you describe to men that they really want. They are on time. They don't flake. They bend over backwards to give him what he wants. It's pretty fukking awesome. They'll let you pick their minds apart, you'll discover a side to them that you didn't know was there, and lots of negative preconceptions that you've had of them will dissipate.
I know that it can suck because on the way up you'll meet lots of girls that are shallow, dumb, mean, etc, but that's not because women are shytty, it's because people as a whole can be pretty shytty. Don't let these types of women like that dictate how you think, feel, and act. You should be the one taking the reins in a more proactive way.