Used in what way tho... usually dudes like this are more than willing to do what needs to be done. We can all have sour grapes after the fact. These same dudes will argue with other men about how they arent being used and we're just jealous. Its only being used if you arent getting what you want out of it. These cake ass dudes usually just want companionship. I've seen it in real life. We all got that simp ass homeboy or coworker that will argue you down about how just being around, or sending her some on her cash app, or just being in the friendzone is a blessing.
It is what it is.