Sage the Gemini out here trying to get his girl back :salute:

Mr Hate Coffee

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What nikkas need to understand is if you want her back, do NOT contact her..period...

The truth!!

But I can't blame nikkas cuz it runs counterintuitive to what we've seen work in movies and pop culture. Also it's what your female friends will tell you to do.

Sometimes you gotta learn the hard way. Lord knows I did. :wow:

Now I'm straight :demonic: in breakups.
 

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I disagree with this. If you a grown adult and made a mistake, call her back. :yeshrug:


The reason you disagree with it is because you don’t know how the female mind works which is probably why this has happened to you before. If me and my woman are in a fight and bad things get said that lead to us not liking each other, as long as she hasn’t physically left me (moving out, dumping me, seeing someone else) it’s my job as the man to begin reconciliation, to fix things. If a woman has LEFT you, do NOT contact her, point blank period. Contacting her once she has left you not only makes you look weak, it confirms her initial idea that you are no longer worthy of her and that it’s best she upgrade and move on. By not contacting a woman that has left you, she will begin to doubt her decision and question whether or not what she did was the right thing to do. This takes balls which is why most men (simps) don’t have it in them to do it, they end up breaking down and reaching out to her only to get the cold shoulder.



The more you chase, the faster she runs. this worked for me on the last 2 ex's i had, they both came running back after no contact.
 
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he got to the point he's so desperate he's not caring about the public embarrassment while she already moved on.

i never got to that point.
shyt, i never even tried to get her back..years later when she told me she was engaged shyt hit me

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met her not that too long ago and the rhythm with her was just the same as it was years ago.
when i told her smelled good her exact word were "nope...time to go"

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Cheating men should never be taken back.

You cant be monogomous? You dont deserve Jordin Sparks.

Get u a filthy instagraham whore
I agree...

Sometimes it's best too "Let it Burn"...

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But yeah, and going on social media is never an option. Learned a long time ago to leave my relationship issues off social media. If she wants to come back she will, but leaving a 4-page letter on FB or IG isn't gonna make her come back any more or less. All it's gonna be is ammo or showing vulnerability which might seem like a good idea but not if she never returns.

Once you fukk up usually it's done. Now I say usually because I'm a normal guy but some chicks are weak minded just as some dudes are weak minded cheaters
 

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I disagree with this. If you a grown adult and made a mistake, call her back. :yeshrug:
You try for a period of time but it's directly after

Not months later.

try for like a good week. If you don't hear back, bounce on to something new
also, Jordin Sparks is hitting nothing but rough patches. Shame that a good girl like her can't find someone who will make her his queen. If she hits 30 and still can't find the one, the coli better not say she was a thot that wanted to have fun in her 20s. Looks like she was trying to be a wife early but she needs to learn to stay away from these industry nikkas.
Yeah I think she is a legit good girl... At least as good as a woman could be in the industry these days.

Dated a couple dudes, got that dumb piercing and a couple tats, but aside from that I can't think of anything else wrong with her.

She shouldn't take dude back either. Legit good women don't deserve a nikka that cheats on them
 
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