Save up $45k just to have your wife spend it all on her student loans behind your back brehs

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Lots of women are excusing her actions and yet women will cry and wonder why no one wants to marry them.

fukk that! I’d make her take out a personal loan for $45k and run me back my money. Borrow it from your father, trick your p*ssy up and down the block for all I care, but you WILL give me my money back.
 

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I dont see it that way :yeshrug:

But he might agree with you being down 45k :yeshrug:
I don’t think it’s bad to combine money, that’s kind of the point of marriage, but you NEVER take ANY money from the joint account without consulting your spouse. And then to top it off, it’s not even hers!!! She put in 5 lousy fukking grand!! The nerve. I’d punch that bytch in her face. It’s pissed me off and it’s not even my situation. I’d slap her across the face if I saw her lol
 

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I don’t think it’s bad to combine money, that’s kind of the point of marriage, but you NEVER take ANY money from the joint account without consulting your spouse. And then to top it off, it’s not even hers!!! She put in 5 lousy fukking grand!! The nerve. I’d punch that bytch in her face. It’s pissed me off and it’s not even my situation. I’d slap her across the face if I saw her lol
It's an awful idea to combine money, because once you do so , either party can spend without the other knowing, until after it's done.

Combine expenses, never the accounts that pay them. I don't have to worry about my wife doing this, but if this were to happen somehow, she would be taking out a loan and paying me back.
 

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It's an awful idea to combine money, because once you do so , either party can spend without the other knowing, until after it's done.

Combine expenses, never the accounts that pay them. I don't have to worry about my wife doing this, but if this were to happen somehow, she would be taking out a loan and paying me back.
We can agree to disagree about combining money. I’m not saying the couple shouldn’t have individual accounts like for their own personal spending, but I think the majority of the money should be in one account. Make financial decisions together and pay from the combined. I don’t see one reason why someone wouldn’t consult with their spouse before taking a large sum of money out the joint account.
 

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Death Becomes Her was a dope movie low key.
 

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I would be like this.. Since your student loan is paid off just pay me weekly til I get my 45k back..
 

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Exactly. She plotted this before he bent his knee. This the new scam chicks doing, all of them are doing it, cac, latina, aw, bw. I don’t matter if you broke either cuz you still gonna be ordered to pay the debt

This is real-ass chit for you niccas' mind.

Just the other day ago I saw an article by a broad talmbat "Student Loan Debt is sexist", and women have the most because they go to college more than men, and they have a harder time paying them back because of The Wage Gap, and they have to spend money on day care, and whoompty whoomp wham...that means the machine is signaling broads outchea to be looking at this issue as a "female issue". And once they do that they gonna give less of a fucc how you feel about it.
 

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We can agree to disagree about combining money. I’m not saying the couple shouldn’t have individual accounts like for their own personal spending, but I think the majority of the money should be in one account. Make financial decisions together and pay from the combined. I don’t see one reason why someone wouldn’t consult with their spouse before taking a large sum of money out the joint account.
There is a saying that "a fool and his money are soon departed". It's 100% true if you're combining accounts. There is no need for it, and if it's a joint account that either party has access to, what sense does it make to "consult" the other person? Keep it separate and there is no issue.....ever.

I'd like to hear one logical reason to join money into the same account vs keeping it separate and just share the needed expenses.
 

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Me personally, I probably would have been ok with it if she had asked and we had a formal agreement to contribute back into those savings at a rate of even 10k/year. But yea to go behind my back is disrepectful and exposes poor character and selfishness.
 

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fukk that! I’d make her take out a personal loan for $45k and run me back my money. Borrow it from your father, trick your p*ssy up and down the block for all I care, but you WILL give me my money back.

People have died for far less.

He had to be a complete punk for her to do that and go to bed with him same night without worry tho.
 

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Breh you don't even need to comment to that person cause shyt is stupid. How the fukk you spend all the savings and not even ask. shyt dude could get laid off the next day and they are up shyt creek.

No marriage counselor would ok doing that shyt without speaking to the spouse first. The shyt is like taking all the money in the bank and buying a business without speaking to your spouse first.

THEY gonna be up shyt creek? You already know how that’s gonna play out lol. Her exact quotes gonna be:

“You got laid off?”
“You don’t have any money for bills, well who’s fault is that?”
“No no no your money is our money, my money is my money”
“Well you better figure SOMETHING out”
 
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