My first thought was to kill her then do 8 years upstate for a crime of passion
Then I cooled off for a lil bit, and thought about Bible passages, and how money doesn't = happiness
Maybe the Lord made me/him go thru this tribulation because he has an even BIGGER blessing waiting on the other side
Either way, I'd immediately file for divorce & sue her for my money. But like someone above said, it might be a joint account so it's technically HER money too.
In that case, I'd just divorce her, move to the OTHER side of town, cut off ALL contact unless for issues with our child (if we had any) and then IMMEDIATELY contact a therapist and a prayer warrior, because I know I'm gonna need some SERIOUS healing to recover my sanity and trust the opposite sex again