Idk why yall cant let this black woman enjoy having a before/after pic with her father.
shyt a lot of em don't have one around anyways. Just cuz yall think she is attractive dont mean he's being/looking sexual. Had she been ugly with no body, this conversation wouldn't exist.
Also, how is he supposed to hold her? Its a grown woman. Her body has developed and he has to adjust. He can't hold her like shes still a child
I have a daughter myself..
And I have countless pictures with her..
If she decides to do a picture in 10 years showing then/now..
I damn sure wouldn’t be holding her up under her ass cheeks
It’s the optics of it all..
I dont think pops has any deviant intent in his heart..
But in this time and era..
You have to be aware of how things look before you post a picture..
We are in the era of digital media..
Where everything is scrutinized and magnified..
We are also in the era where shyt doesn’t die..
This is not a picture I want out there showing love for my daughter through the years..
Furthermore..
Just imagine you wife this young lady up..
You out enjoying a nice day and nikkas come up to you..
“Aye ain’t you shorty with the pops holding her up by the ass cheeks
What yo life bout
”
This is just plain common sense..
Which I have definitely recognized..
Ain’t so common these days..
It’s nothing wrong with showing love to your daughter, moms, aunties..
But this ain’t it and I guarantee she has thousands of pictures framing the love from her father that could have provided better optics..
Even oldhead should have thought twice before taking a picture like this..
But this is the problem with a lot of youngins..
Go viral by any means and promotion
And I’m not going to put the onus on just youngins..
Its a lot of women/men from my era..
Doing goofy shyt outchea as well..
It’s provocative..
Gets the people going
on the cheek??? Or open mouth with tounge???
"damn that shyt look lit"
but you said you still kiss your mom and hold her hand tho..