Saying no to coming back to my place?

[Dixon Cider]

Been talking to a chick and we just had a first hang out, lots in common etc connection and goos energy all that. Due to time after our date our original plans fell through and she suggested we go to my house and I had my mind made up before hand that under no circumstance are we gonna go to my house if I actually want something meaningful. Because things can happen good and bad and from experience I think its better to wait. At least till second hang out. Brehettes did I do the right thing?

 

[Turbulent]

not a brehette but why do you think it's better to wait? if she already wanted to go you wanting to wait or not to wait doesn't change the fact she wanted to go.

 

[Rawtid]

You're in charge. You make this thing go in whatever direction you want it to go in. If she's not with it, find someone else.

 

[Reno89]

How does waiting make it meaningful again?

 

[Dixon Cider]

How does waiting make it meaningful again?

Because I'm not having any luck relationship wise when things go too fast. I'm looking to have a girlfriend and If it takes me doing that then im willing to do it. Okay so she also said she would leave and drive home... I had be at work in morning. I kissed her on cheek end of night and left it till next time.

 

[Reno89]

A meaningful relationship is a relationship where two people are committed to one another, are on similar pages in life, and are compatible on a emotional and physical level.

Has nothing to do with when you "hit it". That's HS shyt, and I graduated in '07

 

[Matt504]

You should make it plain and clear what you're looking for, none of the ambiguous, "she'll know what's up" bullshyt.

You should ask her what she's looking for and if your goals don't align, break it off so no one's time is wasted.

 

[Dixon Cider]

You should make it plain and clear what you're looking for, none of the ambiguous, "she'll know what's up" bullshyt.

You should ask her what she's looking for and if your goals don't align, break it off so no one's time is wasted.

We have that outlined... the problem is everytime a female comes over I hit or something goes wrong early on and it halts things. This female I want to just do it right.

 

[Dixon Cider]

You're in charge. You make this thing go in whatever direction you want it to go in. If she's not with it, find someone else.

Thing is shes awesome. Lot of levels mentally etc and I'd like that to not get skewed by the flesh... no way was she gonna be at my
Crib in them
Yoga pants and got get cheeks gripped after we burned tree and possibly
Got to drinking. I always show a sign of restraint when with prospective girlfriends.

 

[Arithmetic]

 

[Dixon Cider]

And yes a part of it is creating even more mysticism by controlling situations instead of being the guy thats like yes lets go to
My house. Yes date went well enough to go home but I made it clear i'm not persuaded easily. Plus... I didn't have time to get my place nice and tidy before hand so that factor made it easier we def wasn'5 going back.

 

[Solano707]

 

[Dixon Cider]

Whats the issue? if I just wanted ass we would have gone to my
House or a telly.

 

[Spence]

You might as well get the test drive in early to make sure the engine is good. No point trying to wife a female with a trash p*ssy

 

[Scholar]

Seems like you want something more serious instead of just a hook up. If that's the case i think you did the right thing