Saying no to coming back to my place?

[Dixon Cider]

You might as well get the test drive in early to make sure the engine is good. No point trying to wife a female with a trash p*ssy

Last weekend I fukked a chick on our first hang out even though we started talking months ago and still never linked it was a try I just said lets eat and dinner turned into my house. Came to my house and she said "oh you'll prolly stop talking to me if I give it up thats how guys are blah blah" fukked her silly she was a fool on the dikk with them
Squats and that mouth then I still hit her up during the week and not much interaction from her. All I wanna do is make sure this chick can wait a week after our first hangout before coming over cause if she still fukkkn with me a week later after saying no and down to come over then that is better to me.

 

[Dixon Cider]

Seems like you want something more serious instead of just a hook up. If that's the case i think you did the right thing

I even told her that im not looking for a hookup but I am physically attracted to her I reassured her and she agreed but also said whatever happens will happen anyways... and thats fine but I
Usually will never say no to going to my place... i just had put
My foot down and do it this time.. tired
Of women coming and going in my life and this one is very much awake in life and I want to know much more about her.

 

[Ohene]

all i can say is good luck. yall aint have to fukk...yall coulda just chilled at the crib and talked.
good chance she thinks youre a "nice guy" or fukkboy and disses in the future you though. small, but decent chance that your playing hard to get entices her more

 

[ndthentherewasx]

Could of had it 1 time

She probably went to see another dude


And will do so until yall are official



Why is there still a stigma on sex?


Explore the pu**y

 

[NotaPAWG]

Because I'm not having any luck relationship wise when things go too fast. I'm looking to have a girlfriend and If it takes me doing that then im willing to do it. Okay so she also said she would leave and drive home... I had be at work in morning. I kissed her on cheek end of night and left it till next time.

I feel you on this, except I'm a female. All the peopoe I tried to rush things with ended bad. With my boyfriend we didn't intentionally try to take it slow but we didn't rush either, was just a natural speed.

It will make her feel like you respect her, gain her trust and help her self esteem ESP since most guys would not do that.

My boyfriend and I didn't fukk until a month after we started talking and hung out mad times. I even slept at his house twice in that time. We messed around but just didn't have sex, I was also kinda pretty nervous and he's a nervous person too so when we really felt comfortable enough and trusted each other enough then we did.

Don't feel bad about taking things slow, if she's not with it then she's not the one for you. Good luck

 

[Rawtid]

Thing is shes awesome. Lot of levels mentally etc and I'd like that to not get skewed by the flesh... no way was she gonna be at my
Crib in them
Yoga pants and got get cheeks gripped after we burned tree and possibly
Got to drinking. I always show a sign of restraint when with prospective girlfriends.

So are you. If she's so awesome she will follow your lead because YOU know what it takes to be a good dude to her.

 

[Dixon Cider]

Could of had it 1 time

She probably went to see another dude


And will do so until yall are official



Why is there still a stigma on sex?


Explore the pu**y

She very well could have and it is what it is. If shes tight because I didn't go back to my house and not fine with just being around me and saving it for another time
Then so be it. I don't bring just anyone to my
House. Hell when one of my homies has someone else with them and they stop
By Im annoyed even if I know the person. Another girl came over and didn't wanna fukk and was mad I wasn't cuddling with her and was mad I wasn't talking the next day. Don't talk her her anymore she made it
Seem like I was trying to do stuff with her and like it was a bad thing.. so i want to avoid that. I also have alot of shyt
Going on in my brain and on the outside you cant tell I keep a stone face.

 

[Dixon Cider]

Im in my feelins, ex wanna come back in
My life too

 

[Reginald Noble]

You won't have to go through all this bullshyt with a Non-American female

 

[Gold]

Been talking to a chick and we just had a first hang out, lots in common etc connection and goos energy all that. Due to time after our date our original plans fell through and she suggested we go to my house and I had my mind made up before hand that under no circumstance are we gonna go to my house if I actually want something meaningful. Because things can happen good and bad and from experience I think its better to wait. At least till second hang out. Brehettes did I do the right thing?

Having sex doesn't make a relationship meaningless.
Having meaningless relationships does.

By attempting to take the power away from sex, you're actually doing the opposite and making sex the make or break goal in your relationship.

This is the exact same logical fallacy virgins buy into (nothing wrong with being a virgin, it just doesn't make your sex anymore meaningful).

 

[Dixon Cider]

You won't have to go through all this bullshyt with a Non-American female

She is non american

 

[Reginald Noble]

She is non american

From what country

 

[Geek Nasty]

Been talking to a chick and we just had a first hang out, lots in common etc connection and goos energy all that. Due to time after our date our original plans fell through and she suggested we go to my house and I had my mind made up before hand that under no circumstance are we gonna go to my house if I actually want something meaningful. Because things can happen good and bad and from experience I think its better to wait. At least till second hang out. Brehettes did I do the right thing?

Jus tmake sure you let her know that. You know how women's minds work. She's going to be like

"Another ho laid up in his crib?"
"Live in his momma's basement?"
"I bet that breh house nasty as a mf"
"Did my breath smell funny?"
"Maybe he's gay?"
"Man fukk that dude, I was looking good tonight"

And, don't let her tell Pam about you. She'll have her thinking you got dead bodies in the backyard in open graves

 

[Dixon Cider]

Jus tmake sure you let her know that. You know how women's minds work. She's going to be like

"Another ho laid up in his crib?"
"Live in his momma's basement?"
"I bet that breh house nasty as a mf"
"Did my breath smell funny?"
"Maybe he's gay?"
"Man fukk that dude, I was looking good tonight"

And, don't let her tell Pam about you. She'll have her thinking you got dead bodies in the backyard in open graves

Pretty much was like yo, im rockin with you because of that maybe come over another night we don't need to go ham with chillin the first time. If you fukkin wit me then it shouldnt be any issues.

 

[Dixon Cider]

Welp