Seemingly grade A women over a certain age

[The Guru]

Say 28-35, what's that about? I see a few of these ladies around me at work right now with the same traits..

-Classy, relatively low key.
-Obsessed with marriage/relationships for a minute. Upset by the fact that relationships never worked out.
-Good looking takes care of herself.
-Seemingly intelligent, decent job.
-Social life/girlfriends/doing things out.

I'm trying to go in but alarm bells man. Got me thinking I'm getting into some deep waters. Plus the fact they're a few years older than me but I can get over that. I'm thinking you have all these qualities and been wanting a man for a minute, what's the skeleton in the closet?

 

[kevm3]

Most likely reformed hoes or they got traits you just don't know about. She wanted that wild dude growing up and now that they mashed and dashed, she's looking to settle down with a dude that brings her emotional stability... that or she's just crazy or unbelievably selfish and you won't see it until you really get to know her. Ain't no man in his right mind gonna pass up a pretty woman that has it together, is loyal and has a decent personality. The fact that she says her relationships never worked out tells you enough.

 

[BedRoomI'z]

Most likely reformed hoes or they got traits you just don't know about. She wanted that wild dude growing up and now that they mashed and dashed, she's looking to settle down with a dude that brings her emotional stability... that or she's just crazy or unbelievably selfish and you won't see it until you really get to know her. Ain't no man in his right mind gonna pass up a pretty woman that has it together, is loyal and has a decent personality. The fact that she says her relationships never worked out tells you enough.

Nah, not all the time.
She could have been a genuine chick with good morals and values, had her father in her life, worked hard, took care of herself, but fell through the crack because of her choices in the opposite sex.


Now, she just don't care

 

[The Guru]

Some truth to that. The way you describe it that was my ex, she had all those good qualities plus crazy selfishness.
Was with her almost two years but i had to let her go. Entirely too selfish no matter how little i wanted for myself she needed more. Same reason the next dude broke up with her. Wouldn't even let me bury my grandfather in peace without hounding me about being lonely/needing shyt.

 

[The Guru]

Nah, not all the time.
She could have been a genuine chick with good morals and values, had her father in her life, worked hard, took care of herself, but fell through the crack because of her choices in the opposite sex.


Now, she just don't care

Could be right. They still care though, about not having someone but maybe a little embittered by past "failure"

 

[BedRoomI'z]

Could be right. They still care though, about not having someone but maybe a little embittered by past "failure"

Probably more "resigned" than embittered.

 

[PortCityProphet]

maybe she's waiting for a quality dude. not every chick gon rush to get married some of them want to be settled themselves before they get married. chicks with good fathers will more than likely be older and single

 

[jadillac]

Just remember tho, women can nab a man easier than a man can nab a woman. Especially if she looks good.

So if she's still ingle, chances are she has some type of baggage.

 

[BedRoomI'z]

maybe she's waiting for a quality dude. not every chick gon rush to get married some of them want to be settled themselves before they get married. chicks with good fathers will more than likely be older and single

Because they are going to always compare dudes to what
her father did for her and what they are not doing.

Not a fair comparison, especially in this timeframe...

But I give them props for not settling just to have somebody.

 

[Rominati]

Mos chicks trying to get married by 27 b.

If she good lookin and is single in her late 20s/ early 30s, either she was a smizzy back in the day, secretly in love with and waiting on another nikka, or she is just crazy

 

[BedRoomI'z]

Mos chicks trying to get married by 27 b.

If she good lookin and is single in her late 20s/ early 30s, either she was a smizzy back in the day, secretly in love with and waiting on another nikka, or she is just crazy

or she just living life day by day with no expectations outside of her
own life and goals.

can't crawl under the bed and die because you ain't married, that's bullshyt

 

[PortCityProphet]

Because they are going to always compare dudes to what
her father did for her and what they are not doing.

Not a fair comparison, especially in this timeframe...

But I give them props for not settling just to have somebody.

if her dad was a good dude then why not? yall always complain bout a good dude not gettin a fair shake but yall sayin rush and get married to whoever in here

 

[Rominati]

or she just living life day by day with no expectations outside of her
own life and goals.

can't crawl under the bed and die because you ain't married, that's bullshyt

Or she aint as good looking as she think























Lemme guess, you ova 27 aint you ma

 

[BedRoomI'z]

if her dad was a good dude then why not? yall always complain bout a good dude not gettin a fair shake but yall sayin rush and get married to whoever in here

You right, gotta admit to that, but every woman who had a dad
in her life ain't doing that.

Those are some big shoes to fill.

 

[BedRoomI'z]

Or she aint as good looking as she think

















Lemme guess, you ova 27 aint you ma

Been over 27 and I may not be as good looking as I think, but guess what, I know what I want and need in my life and if they ain't coming close to Hunter Lane shoes, we can forget it.

My dad is and was a hard act to follow