Sending DMs to chicks is really a numbers game

Darealtwo1

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thats cuz you prob ugly with no swag lol......

I'm sure if you look different your numbers would be different
 

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:russ: My man broke his Ls down to a science.

Nah but a lot of it also depends on initial approach, how many followers you've got, and the quality of your pics/looks.

I notice if I ask a shorty a question off the tip instead of coming with a compliment, it yields better results. I learned that from seeming my shorties DMs and it's 1000 nikkas all being corny with corny compliments. :mjlol:
 

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I DM chicks religiously. IDC if I don't even know them. Don't get it twisted, this ain't exclusive. I'm still in the real world trying to get these same women. DMs are like my side hustle.

So I recently went through all my Instagram DMs I've sent to chicks and sat down and crunched the numbers.

So a little over a year...

  • Total I sent DMs to 172 women
  • 151 were the exact same copy & paste message (88%)
  • Out of 172 girls, 63 actually opened/read the DM (37%)
  • Out of the 63 that read it only 24 girls responded (38% of read | 14% of total)
  • From the 24 that responded, only 8 gave me their number (33% of responded | 5% of total)
  • Out of the 8 that gave their number, I only got to meet up with 5 (62% of #s | 3% of total)
  • And out of that 5 I only smashed 2 (40% girls met | 1% of total)

Bruh I smashed only ONE PERCENT of all the girls I DM'd :mjcry:
Don't think your numbers will be great. May the lord be with you brehs.

Shoot Ya Shot. Happy DMing



*Bonus stat - 6 girls exposed me for sending the exact same DM to their best friends/sisters :manny:

:salute: If you only you could make a script to blast DMs to a pre selected list of instagram accounts :banderas: And yes my dude in the internet age you don't even have to deal with the rejection face to face. 1% is terrible to keep it 100 but hell if you did most of the legwork with a few messages my man that's a W for sure :salute:
 

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TLR gives a lot of dumb advice but it truly is better to approach women in real life. You'll have a better idea who is feeling you from jump, women are more receptive, and once you get then behind closed doors then its a wrap. DMs should always be a supplement never a primary form of getting at women.

It's the same thing in real life. You get like 3-5 chicks that are down to smash out of 100. Cause some have Bf, married or have kids, or some fukked up situation.. and lesbians do not count they have a mental disorder.
 

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It's the same thing in real life. You get like 3-5 chicks that are down to smash out of 100. Cause some have Bf, married or have kids, or some fukked up situation.. and lesbians do not count they have a mental disorder.

nahhhhhh i get way more interest offline than being simp number 123456 in some girls DMs and I think that holds true for most men. a lot of attractive qualities don't translate into IG photos, tweets or snaps and a lot of things can be hidden as well (women are the best at this). Depending on which side of the fence you fall on will probably dictate your success IRL vs online. I'm in the former group and its a blessing because you don't have to deal with someone not matching up with who they say they are online.
 
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