Serious discussion: How many generations does it take to break the (Black Fatherless Home)?

[Unfiltered]

Gets deep alot of.men cone from single parent homes and have to fight hard to get ahead most these men aren't gonna play with women like that, some females are gonna teat them as arguments are natural as people disagree often so expecting dudes from rough backgrounds who had to fight for respect out here to get along with females is hard.

I'd say least 2 generations but more likely 3 we can talk blackness and how to fox it all day but reality is we live in very unnatural times and men are often disrespected and treated like children most those dudes play games with females.

I think white supremacy is a Hugh reason but I think white kinda figured out youngotta limit females options in order for them to respect you, cold facts honestly. I see why they banned abortion and always take away females right, we still complaining about the wage gap in America after decades. It's for a reason why white males do this.

I think people grow apart, see gets stale, people want change and the more that know you the more get comfortable around you the more likely for men to get disrespected.

I dont think it will happen until black men start seriously community up as a whole and take the lead, until then black women will do them.


Man, it gets very deep this is only probably 20% of what I feel but its not so simple.

 

[invalid]

If the young man was raised in the Church or played organized sports, he would have been exposed to older Black men and possibly learned from their example, experience, and mistakes.

This.

My father wasn’t raised in a single father home but he was very abused by my grandparents. And so were my grandparents, who were abused by their parents. And then their parents.

Sports saved my dad. And in my dad’s case it wasn’t older black men, but the older white coaches. Doesn’t necessarily have to be a black man but any good male figure.

My father stopped that cycle of abuse in one generation. That’s all it takes.

He probably disciplined me less than three times in my childhood. And after which he would come in and lay in bed and hug me until I fell asleep.

I know what a good father is firstly because of him even though he did not experience that with his own.

 

[B86]

It’s too far gone. The fatherless have created kids that are now fatherless, who’s kids have a good chance of being fatherless. I really feel like it’s much too late to break the cycle altogether

 

[PortCityProphet]

One
Parenthood aint shyt but winging it most the time. Be there, do whats needed, and provide what you can.

 

[Unfiltered]

You got 18 year-old girls so securely experienced it doesn't matter how good your dikk is. I mean it's far from black and white.

What can upu sith a girl like that? What does she have to respect? Ecen if you have paper she can pop out a baby and leave and you pay. Real deep stuff.

 

[OperationNumbNutts]

I see a lot of black men in children lives. To break the cycle it's actually on women, not men. To address the issue it can't be ignored the women who use kids as a pawn to get back at men. Also, those who are quick to go to child support and family court versus finding ways to co-parent. There are dudes who are pieces of shyt; however, both side of the issue need to be discussed.

 

[Dre God]

Every Black 80’s Millenial father I know is extremely involved in their child’s life.

That “Black absentee father” shyt was the Gen X And boomers, we just haven’t seen the results because a lot of them just started having kids <10 years ago.

 

[ViShawn]

Statistically for poverty it takes about 4 generations. I state poverty because many of those homes are single mother households.

I'm not sure about the Black fatherless thing but someone said 2 - 3 which sounds good.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

One, however, there are still too many women not protecting their bodies. You cannot expect a man to worry more about getting a woman pregnant when it’s so easy to walk away.

Furthermore, let’s not act like most of those men were living productive and responsible lives, then suddenly morphed when he got a woman pregnant.

 

[AceDeuce]

Feel like it's one currently. Me and my nikkas all fought to break it, and it feels like the majority of folks I meet from my generation is on that same shyt. With that being said, I could be negative and point out the effects of white folks government programs that probably caused two generations of issues, or misogynistic and highlight the effect of women keeping men from their kids via the court system, but I won't.

 

[TheKongoEmpire]

Depends on the environment. Family lawes and economics play a big part and I think a lot of ppl here are overlooking it.

 

[RickyDiBiase]

One
Parenthood aint shyt but winging it most the time. Be there, do whats needed, and provide what you can.

Finally some common sense in this thread. Too much running around like chickens with they heads cut off.

 

[Fiji Water]

I haven't seen it mentioned but it can be one or maybe 3-4.

Consider the cause of absenteeism. Prison, death for any reason, drug abuse, toxic relationship, justice system in general (custody eg), sidepiece babies and so on.

The lore of the absent father plays a role. It's going to determine in a big, big way who the son wants to be as a man.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

One
Parenthood aint shyt but winging it most the time. Be there, do whats needed, and provide what you can.

and how has that worked out for the country
i always think parents should be tougher on the kids. no more of this "as long as my kids are happy and healthy" bs.
stop thiking it's cute to say your preschooler has a girlfriend, stop thinking it's cute for your teens to have dates, stop thinking there is nothing you can do about your teens fukking, etc. i usually will catch a neg or bad attitude and hella excuses in response to posting like this tho so there you have it

 

[Morethan1]

Why?

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