Serious discussion: How many generations does it take to break the (Black Fatherless Home)?

[Software]

Single parent homes only became normalized in the 70s and 80s, Even when looking at television shows in that era like "Good Timees" and "The Jefferson's" they showed fathers in the home which shows how common it was. Modern times has embraced ratchness and dysfunction so single parent household is here to stay and it will take generations to fix this garbage because first you have to teach common sense.

Baby mama and baby daddy culture was accepted is the problem. Too many men and women now feel comfortable having multiple children out of wedlock.

 

[Traveler]

It only takes one. He does need to have positive male role models in his life, like an uncle or grandparent. A mentor or athletic coach. Then develop a peer group that holds each other accountable. The peer group is probably one of the most important things to have.

 

[Thegospel]

Atheist coli really want the answer?

 

[CarltonJunior]

I think we took a serious hit with social media and the onlyfans era

We got a long way to go, the women aren't even interested in having a just 1 man

 

[PCHMalibu]

In my friend group, many of us don't want children because we grew up without a father and were forced into being the man of the house before we could learn to tie our shoes.

I don't like the idea of winging it when it pertains to having children. How many of us make a plan to start a family and have provisions for making sure our children are successful?

I hear so many people use the excuse of seeing their mom raise four kids on her own so if she could do it, you could too. How about imagine how difficult it was for her to do it, and put yourself and your child in a position to not struggle as much.

Stop forcing kids to take on adult responsibility because you made selfish decisions.

 

[voltronblack]

 

[Rawtid]

There has to be a redefining and new baseline of how black men and women interact before there can be any talks of breaking cycles. Otherwise people get stuck trying to find qualities in people that no longer exist.

Until then, it will take as many generations necessary.

 

[Klaus Schwab]

It takes a village to raise a child. Your individualistic mindset doesn't understand that if the community is down everybody is down.

 

[Matriarchy Refugee]

Atheist coli really want the answer?

Islam, right?

 

[get these nets]

To break the cycle it's actually on women, not men.

 

[Pillmattic]

Maybe two generations because the men are only half the equation a lot of women aren’t trying to make it work long term and don’t see the big picture of a two parent household because they’ve grown up in an era of single parent household so it’ll take time on both parts


The biggest point is we can’t blame each other the infighting has to stop to fix the issue and even then it’ll take a lil time readjusting

 

[Pillmattic]

Two. First generation usually underperforms (in and out the streets, drops out of school, dead end job, etc) but still maintains an active presence in the child's life. The second generation gets back on track because their father who may not have the money is active and teaches them values.

All good points much respect

 

[The Villain]

One if you got some common fukking sense and dikk control

Stop nutting in women that aint shyt just cause it feels good in the moment.

 

[Amo Husserl]

Two ideally.
One to figure out how to set the standard.
One to carry that standard forward and improve upon it.
Chances of improvement may vary based on societal factors out of the first generation's control.

 

[OperationNumbNutts]

Nice how you left out the rest of the comment. Nice gif though.