Serious Discussion, Is Going After Someone Romantically In The Office A Bad Idea?

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i'd really wanna know more of what you think of the subject
like gossip is gonna ruin the atmosphere?
awkwardness ?
Its just an "its all fun and games until..." Type situation. Now if you work in different departments or dont really have to see each other then go ahead.
 
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Is it really a bad move? i would like people with experience to answer.
I'm really tryna eat so i'm gonna jump in without overthinking so whats the worst that could happen?

I posted the same question a few months ago and despite the coli telling me not to do it, I went ahead and did it anyway. Of course the shyt ended in disaster because she caught feelings (not to mention she is engaged and has a kid). I was just able to cut her loose last week and even then, she still wants to meet up and maintain some type of relationship. It's to the point that I've been thinking about trying to frame her at work so she gets fired and I won't have to bother seeing her again.

Work will become awkward if you are like me and get tired of new p*ssy real quick. Plus, she can always run to HR and get you fired if you ever make her mad. In my case, her fiance (who supposedly knows that she's fukking somebody) could come up to the job anytime and try to get me fired. There are way too many fish in the sea for you to shyt where you work. Just take my word for it and do not fukk her. Once you get the p*ssy the first time, shyt will go downhill from there.
 

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I posted the same question a few months ago and despite the coli telling me not to do it, I went ahead and did it anyway. Of course the shyt ended in disaster because she caught feelings (not to mention she is engaged and has a kid). I was just able to cut her loose last week and even then, she still wants to meet up and maintain some type of relationship. It's to the point that I've been thinking about trying to frame her at work so she gets fired and I won't have to bother seeing her again.

Work will become awkward if you are like me and get tired of new p*ssy real quick. Plus, she can always run to HR and get you fired if you ever make her mad. In my case, her fiance (who supposedly knows that she's fukking somebody) could come up to the job anytime and try to get me fired. There are way too many fish in the sea for you to shyt where you work. Just take my word for it and do not fukk her. Once you get the p*ssy the first time, shyt will go downhill from there.

tell hr what?
 
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tell hr what?

Tell them that you've been sexually harassing her or flirting too much. Most companies don't want to risk a lawsuit so you'll probably get fired even if there is little to no evidence to prove whatever she tells them.
 

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Tell them that you've been sexually harassing her or flirting too much. Most companies don't want to risk a lawsuit so you'll probably get fired even if there is little to no evidence to prove whatever she tells them.
bytches really do that?
 

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It's weird reading most of these replies when the reality is that the workplace is one most common places couples first meet after school and church

If it's just to have sex? It probably isn't worth it.

Anything serious? Why not?
 

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It's weird reading most of these replies when the reality is that the workplace is one most common places couples first meet after school and church

If it's just to have sex? It probably isn't worth it.

Anything serious? Why not?
thats what im saying
fukk hr i tryna eat
 

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As much as you want to when she comes in with that business suit her ass cheeks all tight and high heels, smelling all good and shyt, got light makeup on... with the lipstick...

As much as you try to keep it on the low. dont do it...

Sometimes inner office dating is very bad. cause you got people all up in your business. then if the relationship goes sideways you gotta see her at work again, for as long as your there...
 

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As much as you want to when she comes in with that business suit her ass cheeks all tight and high heels, smelling all good and shyt, got light makeup on... with the lipstick...

As much as you try to keep it on the low. dont do it...

Sometimes inner office dating is very bad. cause you got people all up in your business. then if the relationship goes sideways you gotta see her at work again, for as long as your there...
:sadbron:
 

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Is it really a bad move? i would like people with experience to answer.
I'm really tryna eat so i'm gonna jump in without overthinking so whats the worst that could happen?
You're going to become another coli statistic. We've already had posters make this thread over and over again and they always come back like, it was a bad idea i shoulda listened. You'll come back and say the same thing. :snoop: Yall gone learn though. Yall gone learn. :sas2:

fukk up your livlihood for p*ssy bruhs.
 

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If u looking to seriously date then its a good idea. If u looking to play around or just to fukk. It won't work. Best way not to feel the wrath of a woman scorned. Is not to be there at all.
 

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only if you hate your job or is it a crappy job you should.

nothing worse than losing a good job over some scorned chick or braking up and eveyone in the ofice knowing your gossip
 

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If youre bagging groceries, greasing fries or working the factory floor, no one gives a shyt unless youre competing for her with other dudes there..
If youre in the white collar corporate world then its a really really bad idea that can hamper your career progress..
 
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