onelastdeath
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I was watching this show called Togetherness last night with my girl, my homie and his girl, at his girls request. At first I didn't want to watch it because it seemed boring. Typical dramedy about suburban White people who don't have real problems but make their problems out to be real problems. And I was gonna call it a night, but it did get interesting. It shows how sometimes marriage just falls apart once you get stranded In routine. Kids. Work. Mortgage. Etc.
As the show went on, it became more and more clear that the dudes wife wasn't attracted to him anymore. And didn't want to have sex with him. When he tries to initiate she always pushed him off and shyt.
The whole thing was weird.
So my boy goes "Man fukk that, just go get some p*ssy elsewhere
"
And naturally I started laughing because of how frustrated the nikka was when he said it.
. His girl gets angry and is like "He should understand that sometimes in a marriage you have to put your needs second, and understand that sometimes sex drives get lower. There's a reason why guys have hands
"
To which he said "
he could jerk off and be single then. It's stupid. So what because she's done means He automatically has to be done too? That's just like saying if a woman needs emotional support and love and A guy is not up for all the talking and conversation, He could just say "well that's why you have girlfriends". Or if you been working out or changing your hair, He could just not say anything, and she'd figure it out. It's stupid.
She said "Wow that's not the same. So you'd cheat on me if I wanted to stop having sex long term?"
He said "No, I'd just leave you. Sex is a part of the relationship. How can a woman expect a man to be okay with lack of sex, but at the same time still expect all her needs Met? That's selfish"
Then she got up and went to the bathroom.
So the question is, should a woman (marriage or not) be able to just say "no sex" or no sex often, and still expect a man to do remember everything that is important to her, provide for her, and meet all of her emotional needs?
As the show went on, it became more and more clear that the dudes wife wasn't attracted to him anymore. And didn't want to have sex with him. When he tries to initiate she always pushed him off and shyt.
The whole thing was weird.
So my boy goes "Man fukk that, just go get some p*ssy elsewhere
"And naturally I started laughing because of how frustrated the nikka was when he said it.
. His girl gets angry and is like "He should understand that sometimes in a marriage you have to put your needs second, and understand that sometimes sex drives get lower. There's a reason why guys have hands
"To which he said "
he could jerk off and be single then. It's stupid. So what because she's done means He automatically has to be done too? That's just like saying if a woman needs emotional support and love and A guy is not up for all the talking and conversation, He could just say "well that's why you have girlfriends". Or if you been working out or changing your hair, He could just not say anything, and she'd figure it out. It's stupid.She said "Wow that's not the same. So you'd cheat on me if I wanted to stop having sex long term?"
He said "No, I'd just leave you. Sex is a part of the relationship. How can a woman expect a man to be okay with lack of sex, but at the same time still expect all her needs Met? That's selfish"
Then she got up and went to the bathroom.
So the question is, should a woman (marriage or not) be able to just say "no sex" or no sex often, and still expect a man to do remember everything that is important to her, provide for her, and meet all of her emotional needs?
writing isn't my best skill. Can't help it.
