Serious Question About Marriage?

[Couth]

if a woman isn't interested in sex then it should be relationship over.

Despite what people like to claim, good sex is necessary to remain healthy and happy. You can't be in a relationship with someone who isn't sexually compatible with you. it will just stress both of you out.

And imo its kind of a double standard too. Women think that they should be able to withhold sex when they want, and if the man is "really in love with them" he'll wait and be patient.

But when a woman is dating a dude with a limp dikk or who can't stroke her right she'll either cheat or leave. Fast. And nobody will claim shes being unreasonable.

 

[onelastdeath]

Never Watch Relationship Related Shows Or Movies With Women, You Always Regret It After. They Don't See It As Entertainement They See It As A Way To Compare Your Relationship To The One On Screen And Find A Way To Cause An Arguement.

I Remember Going To See Gone Girl With My Chick, Whole Nice Day Went Down The Drain After The Post Movie Discussion lol

Surprisingly my girl didn't get involved, She was laughing the whole time.

 

[MillionMills]

. His girl gets angry and is like "He should understand that sometimes in a marriage you have to put your needs second, and understand that sometimes sex drives get lower. There's a reason why guys have hands

Some girls think they can expect stuff like this. I'm not using my hand if I have a girlfriend, period. She's gonna give it to me or I'm gonna find it somewhere else

 

[onelastdeath]

if a woman isn't interested in sex then it should be relationship over.

Despite what people like to claim, good sex is necessary to remain healthy and happy. You can't be in a relationship with someone who isn't sexually compatible with you. it will just stress both of you out.

And imo its kind of a double standard too. Women think that they should be able to withhold sex when they want, and if the man is "really in love with them" he'll wait and be patient.

But when a woman is dating a dude with a limp dikk or who can't stroke her right she'll either cheat or leave. Fast. And nobody will claim shes being unreasonable.

10/10 post.

 

[CinnaSlim]

Sometimes, you gotta figure out when is the best time, where you have the most energy. Like maybe, in the morning, sneak in little quickies, or surprise your partner.

Also, finding positions that don't use up a lot of energy helps.

 

[EA]

So what do you do? Stay in a sexless or near sexless marriage?

It's tough becuase you're in a losing situation. You confront her about it, she's either gonna get upset or just have enough sex with you to shut up. You don't confront her, you're miserable from lack of sex. You leave, you're the a$$hole that left his wife and kids because he wasn't getting his dikk sucked enough.

Ultimately, I'd go down the counselling route first so we could address any marital issues in the broader sense in hopes of solving the lack of sex but if that didn't work, I really don't know. I'm not trying to be that guy that left for a reason many women would fail to empathise with.

 

[Mowgli]

I was watching this show called Togetherness last night with my girl, my homie and his girl, at his girls request. At first I didn't want to watch it because it seemed boring. Typical dramedy about suburban White people who don't have real problems but make their problems out to be real problems. And I was gonna call it a night, but it did get interesting. It shows how sometimes marriage just falls apart once you get stranded In routine. Kids. Work. Mortgage. Etc.

As the show went on, it became more and more clear that the dudes wife wasn't attracted to him anymore. And didn't want to have sex with him. When he tries to initiate she always pushed him off and shyt.

The whole thing was weird.

So my boy goes "Man fukk that, just go get some p*ssy elsewhere "

And naturally I started laughing because of how frustrated the nikka was when he said it.

. His girl gets angry and is like "He should understand that sometimes in a marriage you have to put your needs second, and understand that sometimes sex drives get lower. There's a reason why guys have hands "

To which he said " he could jerk off and be single then. It's stupid. So what because she's done means He automatically has to be done too? That's just like saying if a woman needs emotional support and love and A guy is not up for all the talking and conversation, He could just say "well that's why you have girlfriends". Or if you been working out or changing your hair, He could just not say anything, and she'd figure it out. It's stupid.

She said "Wow that's not the same. So you'd cheat on me if I wanted to stop having sex long term?"

He said "No, I'd just leave you. Sex is a part of the relationship. How can a woman expect a man to be okay with lack of sex, but at the same time still expect all her needs Met? That's selfish"

Then she got up and went to the bathroom.

So the question is, should a woman (marriage or not) be able to just say "no sex" or no sex often, and still expect a man to do remember everything that is important to her, provide for her, and meet all of her emotional needs?

Women are stupid when it comes to their retarded feelings.

She's mad because she just learned his love is conditional. She wants to know her man will love her no matter what even under hypothetical situations that will never happen.

The reality is they have the most conditional love then anyone

Shes so stupid she refuses to acknowledge that her refusing sex to her husband that wants it is a sign that she actually doesn't love him.

Women become stupid when they start thinking sacrifice is a one way requirement for love.

 

[Mowgli]

U

Sometimes, you gotta figure out when is the best time, where you have the most energy. Like maybe, in the morning, sneak in little quickies, or surprise your partner.

Also, finding positions that don't use up a lot of energy helps.

U weigh 100 pounds. Any position that isn't riding requires no energy with you. Ur body easily controlled and manhandled.

 

[The ADD]

Gotta have these conversations before marriage..................

 

[MikelArteta]

Sexless marriage rates are sky high

 

[onelastdeath]

Gotta have these conversations before marriage..................

I see that now. I just don't know why the whole "if she doesn't feel like it, then she doesn't feel like it" thing is so acceptable.

 

[MikelArteta]

And yeah right you get married have two kids and the sex stops, your not leaving or its the end of the relationship.

Typical male bravado talk, she has you by the balls in that Case.

The web is scoured with stories of women being Ava devine before marriage then after two kids and the house putting on that chastity belt after

 

[onelastdeath]

And yeah right you get married have two kids and the sex stops, your not leaving or its the end of the relationship.

Typical male bravado talk, she has you by the balls in that Case.

The web is scoured with stories of women being Ava devine before marriage then after two kids and the house putting on that chastity belt after

So there's really no way out ?

 

[MikelArteta]

Well what can you do?

A mortgage and two kids you love.

Gonna leave?

More than likely I'll be back to Mr hand and xvidsos for 95 percent of men in that situation

I see that now. I just don't know why the whole "if she doesn't feel like it, then she doesn't feel like it" thing is so acceptable.

 

[MikelArteta]

If your dating you can leave

But if your married with kids a mortgage etc. Your basically locked up.

I mean you can cheat but that's risky

So there's really no way out ?