Serious question for the ladies and some of the gents of the Coli!

[electric_fur]

Do you think it is possible to have sex with a person at least 3 times a week without any feelings being caught and things not becoming more than platonic? I got an ultimatum from my friend with benefits, saying that if we don't have sex at least 3 times a week from now on she doesn't want to continue our sexual relationship. I been avoiding doing that because I was afraid she would fall in love with me and she seem like she could be the type to cut a nikka if she scorned.

I'm tryna decide today and I'm leaning towards saying no. Only thing is, she has some of the best puss I ever had and a phat booty. I don't know what to do.

I had sex with a dude exactly 3 times about four months ago. No feelings at all.

He on the other hand got upset at me and posted all my information online. So yeah, feelings caught by him. I still have no feelings on this dude.

So I think it's possible, but one person will catch feelings and the person will not always be the chick. It's clear this dude caught feelings despite how much he called me ugly, crazy, and a bytch. :CUDWUT: Otherwise he wouldn't have cared enough to keep bringing it up. I had to block him on my phone because he was threatening me. Tell me that's not caring.

If I could go back in time I would have never had time with that crazy fukker.... I can guarantee he still talks about me to his jumpoffs like I'm the crazy one just for fukkin him.

 

[Born2BKing]

I had sex with a dude exactly 3 times about four months ago. No feelings at all.

He on the other hand got upset at me and posted all my information online. So yeah, feelings caught by him. I still have no feelings on this dude.

So I think it's possible, but one person will catch feelings and the person will not always be the chick. It's clear this dude caught feelings despite how much he called me ugly, crazy, and a bytch. :CUDWUT: Otherwise he wouldn't have cared enough to keep bringing it up. I had to block him on my phone because he was threatening me. Tell me that's not caring.

If I could go back in time I would have never had time with that crazy fukker.... I can guarantee he still talks about me to his jumpoffs like I'm the crazy one just for fukkin him.

Thing is, she is talking about having sex at least 3 times per week every week, not just 3 times in total. That's a lot of fukking but she 40 so her sex drive is on super saiyan status.

 

[DreadHead P]

Thing is, she is talking about having sex at least 3 times per week every week, not just 3 times in total. That's a lot of fukking but she 40 so her sex drive is on super saiyan status.

that changes the whole dynamic of the situation, at 40 I doubt you have to worry about her catchin feelins, women that age usually know how to keep their coochie and their heart separate, that's the age when they be in heat though, she may literally just need to be stuffed full of young dikk every other night

 

[Mr210]

keep it going, u idiot

 

[opulence]

Nope...I always catch feelings...which is why I don't play myself with casual sex....and good sex will have you viewing that person from a different sometimes unrealistic perspective lol...

 

[CJ]

40? Alright, that changes things a bit now

 

[Turbulent]

i think she already caught feelings and is trying to sneak her way into your life more and more gradually.

 

[Born2BKing]

Here is the true story.

O.P. is really the one that caught feeling evident by him making this thread looking for a way out bc he already in too deep emotionally. I can almost guarantee that you hang out with the girl on occasions where ya are not fukking i.e. just you in her chilling at her house watching a movie or just talking. For those who may or may not know that's call being intimate and building an emotional connection. So in conclusion the only one you fooling O.P. is yaself

I have never done ANYTHING with this chick but fukk her. I have never even had a voice conversation over the phone, just hit and hit and that's on my mama. Her sex drive is crazy so she just wants dikk all the time. I have no feelings invested in this chick at all. What you meant was your ass would catch feelings if you was hitting something often but I'm not you lil homie.

 

[Ain't That Something]

I have never done ANYTHING with this chick but fukk her. I have never even had a voice conversation over the phone, just hit and hit and that's on my mama. Her sex drive is crazy so she just wants dikk all the time. I have no feelings invested in this chick at all. What you meant was your ass would catch feelings if you was hitting something often but I'm not you lil homie.

Yep feelings caught

 

[Born2BKing]

Yep feelings caught

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

i wouldn't do it. sounds like a trap...

 

[Born2BKing]

that changes the whole dynamic of the situation, at 40 I doubt you have to worry about her catchin feelins, women that age usually know how to keep their coochie and their heart separate, that's the age when they be in heat though, she may literally just need to be stuffed full of young dikk every other night

Yeah my g, that's what it sounds like but you just never know. She kind of ratchet wit it so I been tryna to play it safe. That's a lot of fukking for someone you not with and I haven't fukked too many chicks who didn't catch feelings from it. That body is ridic though so I will miss getting up in that.

Spoiler

 

[Ain't That Something]

Ok I'm gone break it down for you "real nikka"

A nikka that is that claim he getting p*ssy on the regular is not worried bout a friend with benifit (jumpoff) feelings bc these agreements are created with the intent of being temporary and no feelings being caught by either party absoving you of any responsibility if shawty falls in love. The fact that you worried bout her feelings"real nikka" tells me that you care more than you let on bc the p*ssy is so wet as you put it and want it to last longer where it could lead her to fall in love when it should have been hit it a couple time and quit it regardless of what she wants. So go on and keep flexing for the coli and tell us how you worried she might go carzy.

 

[Swirv]

Ive never had a problem just keep everything light and focus on enjoying eachother.

 

[skeetsinternal]

Do you think it is possible to have sex with a person at least 3 times a week without any feelings being caught and things not becoming more than platonic? I got an ultimatum from my friend with benefits, saying that if we don't have sex at least 3 times a week from now on she doesn't want to continue our sexual relationship. I been avoiding doing that because I was afraid she would fall in love with me and she seem like she could be the type to cut a nikka if she scorned.

I'm tryna decide today and I'm leaning towards saying no. Only thing is, she has some of the best puss I ever had and a phat booty. I don't know what to do.

I used to deal with this chic I met at the gym who owned a hair salon who was engaged. We setup a NSA strictly physical relationship. She was off on Mondays and Mondays I would swing by or Saturday night after she got done smoking weed and I came thru and bust dat ass. After we got done with all the squirting she did, she would hit me with the deuces and the Russel Simmons, "Thanks for comin out, God bless you, good night..." . I never got emotionally connected and neither did she, I just provided a service and she provide the ass. It depends on the maturity level of the people involved.