I wouldn't want a female that's a virgin past 21 just doesn't make sense to me past a religious standpoint which I could respect. But a female on that religious tip isn't my thing. I'm not that strictly religious and couldn't be in a relationship with someone who is. I just need someone who believes in God, repentance, has morals and wants to raise our children that way.
I would also think there's some type of repression of sex, disgust, fear, lack of interest, or disdain for it past that age.
The woman probably has a low sex drive or is weird. A lot of females that I personally know that are virgins past 21 view sex as disgusting or are afraid of it. I can't be with someone who has this mentality my sex drive is too high and I've had too much good sex already.
For ones that aren't virgins usually I find out they are jaded or bitter about some old relationship. I don't want a damaged woman.
I also feel like females who want nikkas to wait this long view sex more for procreation or to keep a marriage and don't see the enjoyment or pleasure aspect of it.
Personally I won't wait for sex for more than 2-3 weeks. I move on after that or keep that shyt on the backburners until they hit me....
To be honest most women I've been with I had sex with by the third time meeting them.
Just use condoms, be selective and not regretful of your partners, and find partners that make you happy until you meet someone to settle down with I don't see how hard it is to do that.
I don't judge females on the amount of sexual partners either.