Serious question, how does a woman actually add value to your life?

[SheWantTheD]

You cuffed these women and they weren't carrying their own weight? Probably your first mistake.

Sounds like you were catering to these women and they weren't catering to you.

Did you bring them around your friends, have y'all do shyt you like to do and not just what they like to do?

Relationships should be give and take.. on both sides.

 

[JQ Legend]

Bullshyt.

Some men are struggling in all aspects of life and cannot find a woman, never mind a quality woman to tie down so they convince themselves that life without them is the better option. It’s a purely coping mechanism.

Look at high earning men from all walks of life: they are either married or have their harem of women that they keep in rotation. No man of means with the ability to pull asks “what do women add to life” questions lmao. If you can get one, you’ll see what they add. If you can’t, you’ll create reasons why you’re better off living your life as a single bachelor jacking off for the rest of your life.

Even if it’s *just* sex for some men, is that not significant/important? Most STRAIGHT men would say yes.

OP, if you are gay and rather fck, cuddle and build a legacy with your bros just say that. It’s 2022, you have a whole community to support you.

I told y’all before about this chick. She literally only posts here to shyt on men And/or defend women.

Do a search for her posts and I doubt you’ll find a single one that doesn’t fit the above criteria

I agree that shyt is dumb but lots of women these days are manipulative or jump way too fast in rebound relationships without clearing their baggage. Men ain’t the only ones fukking up mentally.

Also who are you? I never seen you before

i'm lettin it go, thread ended up some other shyt. have a good night.

See above

OP could have worded the title better but he wasn’t saying women add no value, he was moreso asking what value they provide beyond sex. Which ironically she agreed is the case for some men.

 

[QuintessentialMan]

Take what little money she has for my own ends sometimes. She oversees the Cooking of the food. Brings me my food sometimes. Takes the children away when i wanna burn. Like basically a loyal soldier in the household to do things while you do other things, a 3rd arm, someone to bounce ideas off of. Sometimes you just want to poke, tickle and torment somebody. Sometimes you just want to go watch a movie. They're needed.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

If you want children, you're gonna need a woman.

If you don't want children, you're not.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Absolutely nothing depending on who you ask. Can’t fault OP for feeling this way because many women feel the exact same way about men these days. If not a bit worse. So it’s not surprising men would feel similarly these days.

The real answer depends on your own personal needs, desires and values. If you are pretty mentally sound, not bitter or latently homosexual, know how to love and be loved and aren’t mentally fukking damaged to the point that you see all of humanity as a problem, and aren’t some pseudo-autistic spectrumy misanthrope, or operating out of defensive hurt energy because you keep desiring people who ain’t compatible or worth your time but you still want them for lust or validation… and can enjoy healthy human interaction, then they offer the same value as friends do: companionship. If that’s what you value.

If you are emotionally normal and simply don’t value the company of others then don’t force it. I only mention the characteristics above because some people who complain are covering legit personality disorders and trying to hide them behind the banner of “people suck these days”. I mean sure, humans can be hot ass juice sometimes, but that can’t excuse away some people’s inability to find like minded individuals to get along with. Lol some of these types aint foolin me.

All that having been said, women aren’t the answer to all of life’s problems but they can be someone dope to converse with, share your life with, enjoy yourself with. But the main point is that you should be pretty whole whether you have somebody or not. Others can enrich your life but you shouldn’t be overly reliant on ANYBODY to create the core quality of it.
There’s a balance to be struck between codependency and companionship.

Otherwise, if you want to create a nuclear family, obviously it’s ideal to have a partner to raise children with. Stats tend to show that outcomes for kids are better in HEALTHY two parent homes.

But if you don’t care about that stuff and you doing well on your own, don’t sweat it.
I know some single people that don’t want relationships because others don’t add anything to what they got going on. I don’t single shame so if you happy on 1, OP do you. My advice is to enjoy whatever phase you are in. When I’m in a relationship I adore it. When I’m single, it’s amazing. Doesn’t really matter b/c Imma enjoy myself regardless. Just do you on your own terms and enjoy yourself. Life is too short to do otherwise.

 

[Rozay Oro]

See above

OP could have worded the title better but he wasn’t saying women add no value, he was moreso asking what value they provide beyond sex. Which ironically she agreed is the case for some men.

I know what OP meant, he straight with me. I was just adding on to her point. I didn’t mean to make it sound like I’m dissin breh.

 

[WaveMolecules]

My wife motivates me.

She brings me so much joy.

life is way better with someone who loves you for you.

 

[Solo_87]

Depends

Like with most relationships... companionship ... intimacy without fear of judgement...support and advise...women tend to be more emotionally intelligent

Sex. If you want children... Someone to birth and mother your children

Etc

 

[JA_Carter]

Serious question

I been in several relationships and it’s the same predictable pattern:

taking them out, getting them gifts, being paraded around their friends, giving attention and emotional support. Listening to their grievances.

But the second times get tough for a nikka, it’s the same:

“this is too much for me to deal with, I’m out”

Let’s talk about it family, aside from p*ssy what does a man get back for the time, money, effort and attention he gives a woman?

A companion/emotional support? Do women actually even support you when shyts hard in life. They out the door if they see a chunk in the armour.

Starting to realize this

 

[BobbyWojak]

this thread was very gay

 

[Professor Emeritus]

Serious question

I been in several relationships and it’s the same predictable pattern:

taking them out, getting them gifts, being paraded around their friends, giving attention and emotional support. Listening to their grievances.

But the second times get tough for a nikka, it’s the same:

“this is too much for me to deal with, I’m out”

Let’s talk about it family, aside from p*ssy what does a man get back for the time, money, effort and attention he gives a woman?

A companion/emotional support? Do women actually even support you when shyts hard in life. They out the door if they see a chunk in the armour.

That's 100% the quality of woman you're aiming for or attracting. And I don't know anything about you, but when I see guys in TLR discuss what they find desirable in women, it's no surprise that some superficial lightweight is what they'd end up with.

I fell in love with my wife years before we got together because of how she supported me through a rough time of depression when we weren't even together. And then when we finally did get together, literally that very week I ended up in a fukked-up situation that she stood by my side strongly throughout the nine months it took to resolve, when that was the perfect time for her to drop out if she wanted to. So I definitely disagree that those women aren't out there, you just have to look for them. They're church girls, and they don't have IG.

 

[The ADD]

Old thread but it’s a woman by woman basis.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

It’s not that having “a woman”, like any woman, adds value to your life. It’s when you find “your woman” or your match.

 

[Bondye Vodou]

They don’t add value, they are parasitic. Married men make more to keep their bytch happy because if they don’t, they will lose her.

And the bytch is most likey cheating.

Anways as for op. As a man it’s your job to vet these hoes and weed out wifey material from pump and dumps (aka the vast majority of modern day women). Good luck.