Serious Question.

[25YOUTHS!!]

She deserves what she can get. Shyt, there's men that date and marry single mothers everyday.
I don't buy into the coli notion that single mothers are inherently less worthy, plus theres more factors to consider such as if it was from marriage, how many diff bd she has, etc.


With that being said, I don't see myself marrying a single mother.
The cons outweigh the pro.
Plus I would want to have OUR first child together.
TBH it would have to be some extraordinary circumstances shyt for me to choose a single mother over a woman with no children, all other things being equal

 

[NSSVO]

In the real world, most people have common sense. On the-coli, only like ten percent of the people on here aren't trolling.

 

[Elle Driver]

what? I was explaining how men feel about it, of course no one is forcing them to do so.

You brought up points about the women not wanting them in their prime. It sounds like these dudes who are always harping on about single moms are coming from a place of bitterness. Because what nikka on their shyt has one on their radar if he thinks they're so below him? You feel me?

 

[Emoryal]

You brought up points about the women not wanting them in their prime. It sounds like these dudes who are always harping on about single moms are coming from a place of bitterness. Because what nikka on their shyt has one on their radar if he thinks they're so below him? You feel me?

Huh

 

[SheWantTheD]

You brought up points about the women not wanting them in their prime. It sounds like these dudes who are always harping on about single moms are coming from a place of bitterness. Because what nikka on their shyt has one on their radar if he thinks they're so below him? You feel me?

Okay that's one reason, but you are going to ignore everything else I said? Same thing goes for women that are overweight don't have the dudes they want hollering at them, only for them to lose the weight then want nothing with said dudes.

I never said I agree with it or that it's right, more so I can see from someone who feels that way's point of view.

 

[miranda]

You're girl got pregnant in college on accident by someone she wasn't in a longterm relationship with. Her actions were irresponsible it's a good thing it seems to be working out. If it doesn't she will have to face the consequences of her actions

 

[Elle Driver]

Okay that's one reason, but you are going to ignore everything else I said? Same thing goes for women that are overweight don't have the dudes they want hollering at them, only for them to lose the weight then want nothing with said dudes.

I never said I agree with it or that it's right, more so I can see from someone who feels that way's point of view.

Your points may be valid but would you agree they become moot if you consider single mothers women you wouldn't want a relationship with?

 

[Retired Account]

I aint playing daddy to no ones kids.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Your points may be valid but would you agree they become moot if you consider single mothers women you wouldn't want a relationship with?

Which points exactly? And the points I suggested are the reason why someone wouldn't consider single mothers women they would want a relationship with. Your question makes no sense in that regard.

 

[The ADD]

I disagree with this. These men are coming from a standpoint that the woman didn't look twice at them when she was "in her prime", banging body before a baby, no children, emotional baggage from past traumatic relationships etc.. but now when she's sick and flabby from pregnancy or letting herself go, has children etc she's now checking for you.

But how many situations are truly where the exact woman that passed you up, circles back to try to deal with you after she has kids. I'm not saying it doesn't happen but it seems unlikely it's happening at that deep of a level very often. If it is how are they even getting in your circle to do that?

I think @Elle Driver bigger point is that for single moms to be such a non-starter for the board (personal preference which is everyone's right) it gets a lot of energy.

 

[iFightSeagullsForBread]

If you ain't a trying to fukk a bad single mom then you low key sus as fukk.

 

[#SOG_soldier]

Cuff the next nikkas left overs, brehs

 

[SheWantTheD]

But how many situations are truly where the exact woman that passed you up, circles back to try to deal with you after she has kids. I'm not saying it doesn't happen but it seems unlikely it's happening at that deep of a level very often. If it is how are they even getting in your circle to do that?

I think @Elle Driver bigger point is that for single moms to be such a non-starter for the board (personal preference which is everyone's right) it gets a lot of energy.

Does it really though? People aren't making random posts about how single moms ain't shyt and don't deserve a man without kids. It's either through someone posting their personal experience dealing with single moms, russell wilson and ciara, or some news event dealing with a single mom. Can't remember the last thread made on single moms.

 

[The ADD]

Does it really though? People aren't making random posts about how single moms ain't shyt and don't deserve a man without kids. It's either through someone posting their personal experience dealing with single moms, russell wilson and ciara, or some news event dealing with a single mom. Can't remember the last thread made on single moms.

Random threads no but when it becomes a topic it gets a lot energy. More energy than seems needed for a group of people that would be deemed undateable.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Random threads no but when it becomes a topic it gets a lot energy. More energy than seems needed for a group of people that would be deemed undateable.

hoes are deemed undateable and there are threads about them everyday.