(Serious Topic) Im paranoid about losing my parents!

[Sonic Boom of the South]

The more time passes
the more I think about what if my parents pass away

I dont think I can take it


my parents are in their 60's
been married over 40yrs


both still work


my mom had a mini stroke a year ago
but she is in good health now

she works out and eats right

my father never had health issues but he dont eat as healthy




my grandma passed at 96
and i remember praying that I passed befor her as a kid
cause i knew i couldnt deal with her not being here


i was just home for the holiday
and it was hard to leave

everytime i leave i get emotional

i hug my pops and kiss him on the forehead and tell him i love him

whenever a poster on here speaks on losing a parent that shyt tears me up






i never had any fear of dying or none of that shyt
but losing a parent

 

[Neil Tyson]

you're gonna die too if that makes you feel any better.

Watch this video to understand you and your parent's irrelevancy

 

[Black_Panther_JS]

i think about this all the time, just with my grandmother

i wouldn't be able to take it if my grandma dies, she's like my 2nd mom and i've spent a lot of my life with her
most of my favorite memories are at her house

 

[Saiyajin]

you're a man get a hold of yourself

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

you're a man get a hold of yourself

neg

 

[Boujee Bonita Braxton]

I have the same fear with my mom.

She's only 49 but I have heard of a lot younger people passing away suddenly.

I think I would go completely crazy like seriously check out of life.

 

[Yo Mama]

I have had this fear since i was about 8 when my mom was in a serious car accident.
Now added to that i worry about my kids... 1 couldn't bring myself to type it.

Now i also worry about myself dying, my kids...

i9ts inevitable but so scary.

 

[AB Ziggy]

I have the same fear with my mom.

She's only 49 but I have heard of a lot younger people passing away suddenly.

I think I would go completely crazy like seriously check out of life.

a grandma at age 49?

 

[The ADD]

Why did you even put this in my mind fam

 

[whatthatthangsmelllike]

My pops had lung cancer (non smoking)4 years ago found out about from falling off a latter on 4th of July. Tore me up he went through chemo and all that. The cancer came back last year spread to his bones. Hes hurting.

 

[pickles]

I think about this sometimes too.

 

[Youngdev]

nikka consider yourself lucky and cherish the good times

Never met my grandfather, grandma died when i was 13 . Dad left when i was like 6 never seen him again. nikka overdosed like 7 years ago. Moms died from cancer. No brothers no sisters.

People die its apart of life

 

[Marco Andretti]

shyts gonna happen..the best you can do is actually start to accept it and how it may happen

So when it does it doesn't become such a shock ..

My dad did that with my grandma when she was in her last years

And he took it a lot better than I thought ..

On another hand my brother dies in a car accident and that fukked me up..

Just knowing that he was just fine one day

And the next day he was gone

So I think acceptance early is actually this best thing .

Anything with surprise or denial will hurt a lot more .

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

My pops had lung cancer (non smoking)4 years ago found out about from falling off a latter on 4th of July. Tore me up he went through chemo and all that. The cancer came back last year spread to his bones. Hes hurting.

God bless your pops brah

nikka consider yourself lucky and cherish the good times

Never met my grandfather, grandma died when i was 13 . Dad left when i was like 6 never seen him again. nikka overdosed like 7 years ago. Moms died from cancer. No brothers no sisters.

People die its apart of life

ima hug u brah
gah damm

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

shyts gonna happen..the best you can do is actually start to accept it and how it may happen

So when it does it doesn't become such a shock ..

My dad did that with my grandma when she was in her last years

And he took it a lot better than I thought ..

On another hand my brother dies in a car accident and that fukked me up..

Just knowing that he was just fine one day

And the next day he was gone

So I think acceptance early is actually this best thing .

Anything with surprise or denial will hurt a lot more .

nah im not accepting that