Settling for someone you are not attracted to

[Sonic Boom of the South]

How rich is she

 

[Black Steph Curry]

Reminds me of some dumb shyt my pops told me when i was about 12

"Any girlfriend is better than no girlfriend."






Even at tht age i knew tht was some retarded shyt he said

 

[Commish]

Would you settle to spend the rest of your life with someone you are either not physically or emotionally attracted to or both?

I am curious about guys perspectives on this and if guys ever do settle like that because I feel like I've seen more women lower their standards and settle for someone they aren't happy with more than men do.

As a man, I couldn't settle for any woman who I am not physically, emotionally nor intellectually connected. It isn't worth my time nor effort at this stage of my life.

Now, that isn't to say that a woman has to be attractive by societal standards nor am I saying that she has to have all of her shyt together, but I am saying that whoever I click up with needs to be on code all around.

Me and said person need to be on one accord when it comes to establishing and building a solid foundation based on mutual respect, trust as well as come to an understanding that our overall goals is to create a legacy that will last beyond our lives when we pass towards our future offspring(s).

I say no to toxicity, violence, financial ruin, infidelity and any other type of negativity. I mean everything that was stated!

 

[The Wolf Among You]

I'm not attracted to him physically and have really not clicked with him when it comes to personality/emotional side. He is accomplished etc. career wise and overall a nice guy..he is everything my friends are looking for in a guy (mostly his career+education gets them excited) which is why they keep saying I'm making a big mistake. I tried to get to know him...I was thinking maybe over time I'll like him more but after a few months of getting to know him (long distance) I am still not into him.

Keep it moving, doing anything other than that will be wasting his and your time.

Also, hit your friends with the , if they like him so much they can date him.

 

[Jean Jacket]

There's always options.

Don't believe what these miserable fukking people tell you.

 

[Antwon Mitchell]

Nope.

 

[Coco Loco]

Be careful yall.... just use your own discernment with this OP, bc she's a bait-threader. this thread along with her other IG advertisement shows that she has some type of agenda and tactics imo. white infiltration is real. just sayin.. caution.
an example for reference:
My IG has almost no black followers because of the IG algorithm

As always

 

[Yinny]

Life is way too short for all that. Tried it before- it was a huge waste of time and ended up making me mad at him and myself. Good luck though.

 

[stave]

Nah cuz I'm gonna cheat if either is missing

So I just break up with them

This is always the reason I break up with them. Something is missing

I'm ok with that

 

[International Playa]

I'm only asking because I had recently considered settling. Everyone told me I should settle for this guy because we look good on paper together but I was not attracted at all even though I tried my best to overcome my lack of interest in him... everyone kept telling me this is my best option...I did not go through with it.

Be a people pleaser brehrettes

Let people tell you what to do with your life, brehrettes