Thread title is misleading as that's not what she's saying. She even says at one point that she's okay with aggressive sex and even if it's painful that can be okay. Her issue is the way a lot of us describe our approach to sex. I don't entirely disagree with her. I mean you're talking about an intimate act of affection, and some of us describe it and approach it like a sweaty game of Call of Duty. An argument can be made that, that kind of approach doesn't always make for the best experiences between men and women. Especially those lacking experience and maturity.