Sexologist says black people are too comfortable during sex using violent language

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All jokes aside she's actually got a point.

There's other words we could use to describe it, rough aggressive passionate whatever, fill in the blank. But we like to frame our relationships in an adversarial way IMO. Even on JBO some of the links are captioned as this male pornstar vs that female pornstar
 

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"beat the p*ssy up like Emmet Till" - Lil Wayne

She has a point...and it goes beyond semantics. It's not about the actual sex being rough, it's about how we frame things and how it influences the way we interact with each other. The only thing I disagree with is centering it on black people like we're at the root of sexual violence like white men don't "bang" and "smash" and even fukk which means to strike something.

I completely understand the :comeon: reaction if you're coming at this from a surface level, but human beings should be re-thinking a lot of the ways we interact, especially sexually.
 

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I mean....."words have power" and y'all can take that how you want lol
 
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