Sexual confidence is completely gone…

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The insensitivity to mental health on this forum is wild lol. I don't think it's a stealth brag thread and this shyt is more common than you'd think. It's a lot of good looking mfs out there who actively avoid the women who pursue them because they have sexual performance anxiety. The way I understand it, this is tied to your brain and not your biology. So simply popping a viagra won't fix it.

OP, truth be told you probably gotta see a shrink. Or you could just be real with the girl about your situation. If she really fw you, she'll understand and will try to help you regain that level of comfort being intimate with another woman.
 

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The insensitivity to mental health on this forum is wild lol. I don't think it's a stealth brag thread and this shyt is more common than you'd think. It's a lot of good looking mfs out there who actively avoid the women who pursue them because they have sexual performance anxiety. The way I understand it, this is tied to your brain and not your biology. So simply popping a viagra won't fix it.

OP, truth be told you probably gotta see a shrink. Or you could just be real with the girl about your situation. If she really fw you, she'll understand and will try to help you regain that level of comfort being intimate with another woman.

:manny: it's not insensitivity. We keep asking whats up but he's not being clear. So far we only have surface level to go on.

If he pushes on through it'll actually give him a chance to clarify wtf is actually bothering him or if it'll actually affect the events that play out. But he won't get any answers if he's not clarifying, he won't get answers if he ducks the situation. And what he seeks is answers.

So what we genuinely suggest is he goes through it and see what's actually bothering him.

Plus she didn't even say explicitly they are going to fukk. So dudes mind is playing tricks on him.. the mind is like your child. You can't entertain everything it wants to bring your attention to.
 

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a lot of people could avoid, or at least greatly minimize, sexual performance anxiety if yall worked on developing RELATIONSHIPS first instead of having sex first. finding someone you trust and can communicate with and who respects you eases a lot of tension, insecurity and anxiety. but yall nikkas hate commitment so carry on giving out weak dikk in week 2 of knowing/hanging out with someone :sas1:

this aint one-sided either, all you leaving your shirt on, only in the dark, insecure women would enjoy sex more if you weren't fukking random dudes who you think are judging you or expect to ghost you after giving it up :sas2:
 

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Take two shots of something hard 30mins before you go, and take a blue chew or something akin to that an hour before you go, dont worry about your average sized penis; she wont care when shyt starts happening
 

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Man it’s combination of many things honestly that plays apart in it society in general is probably the biggest reason its destroyed, right now I’m trying to make sure it doesn’t interfere with my other life goals.

Stop the BS talk and ignoring us asking for blunt answers

What's your problem, breh?!
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