Sexual confidence is completely gone…

[The ADD]

This guy

 

[Speaking Womanese]

I'm confused, brother. Now, I see where you said, you actually want a genuine friendship with her. So, are you afraid that if your sex game ain't up to par, that she'll ghost you? I'm curious to what she look like. Because, if she's bad as you say, then the only thing you should be thinking about is tearing her ass up. Immediately

He’s equally as fine to her if she’s throwing it at him so he should be cool with it...

Unless he finessed the frequency and is worried he can’t maintain the facade

He might be comparing himself to the calibre of men he assumes she’s had.

 

[kingdizzy01]

i read the first paragraph and the last paragraph. my advice is to leave her alone and someone else scoop her up cuz u not ready.

if you cant handle her in bed when shes openly inviting you, how can you handle life when shyt gets tough?

hit the gym hard for the next 90 days, get a personal trainer, etc. u clearly aint ready to do grown up things with women though.

 

[Jblaze204]

OP, sounds like you need to work on yourself which is a great thing. Take your time and get healthy mentally & physically then go back out there. Don't worry too much about leading shorty on. she'll be aight

 

[Black Haven]

OP, sounds like you need to work on yourself which is a great thing. Take your time and get healthy mentally & physically then go back out there. Don't worry too much about leading shorty on. she'll be aight

That’s what I been thinking about doing is meditating and clearing my mind from unwanted thoughts and stress that destroy my mood. I never thought I would need anything like this and thought just like these dudes in this thread but past experiences has ruined me like shyt and it’s mentally hard to get over that.

 

[Eternal Tecate]

Just tell her you'll get more help from her than the coli

 

[International Playa]

OP got erectile dysfunction.

His worried if his dikk will get up or not, when it's time to perform

Whenever you anxious about sex for the first time with any woman. Always offer a massage with baby oil , play slow jams & candles to set the mood.

 

[Anti-Anime]

This is what happens when you watch too much Anime @Anti-Anime

I wish a bytch was the most of my worries.

 

[Apollo Creed]

OP gotta have herpes or something

 

[Apollo Creed]

Not gonna clown OP like some of yall as this could be some deep rooted shyt, but will echo some other comments, what's the root cause of your anxiety?

Is it performance anxiety? Maybe deepened by the fact shorty knows people in your circle?

Or just some other insecurity. You need to get to the root cause of it otherwise you'll just continue this cycle forever

my thing as a grown man who is shook of sex dont hang out with grown ass single women, problem solved

 

[King Poetic]

Go get some Sildenafil and once you get u some, your confidence will come back and your sex drive will be back

I had a situation where a chick wanted me to hit and I couldn’t. It wasn’t cause of her, my mind was racing because I was going through shyt with my dad being diagnosed with cancer and the anxiety of that had my mind far away from thinking about sex..

so I was like let me try some viagra and then the next time when my mind was clear and my dad treatments starting going well, I tore her ass up and we been together ever since

MAIN THING IS TO CLEAR THE STRESS AND ANXIETY OUT YOUR LIFE

 

[Ya Sinning Mane]

Op u gotta tighten up breh.
Know your lane and stay in it

You got out your lane
Now you gon look goofy
Be true to yourself at all times
Even if it hurt her

 

[dat aint da same sandwich]

nikka what?

I swear this generation WEIRD AF

 

[Antwon Mitchell]

Seriously, how old are some of y'all nikkas that be going through these problems ?

Most of you guys are in your mid-late 30s still having these struggle stories when it comes to women is just astonishing.

I assumed y'all being older would've already figured these types of things out but I guess not...I'm in my late 20s and I never had the problems y'all older bruhs be going through.

 

[Mr.bocario]

No lie this is a classic coli thread.
Make an attention getting title
Leave out key details
Ignore thread and don’t clarify any misconceptions


I see you OP