Sexualizing Breast feeding or Poor co-parenting

[Rhapscallion Démone]

The situation

A man and a woman have child together although they aren't together. The father is in a relationship with another woman. Father asked the mother to send him a picture of their child and the mother sent him a picture of the baby while he is nursing/sleeping because she doesn't want to wake him. The Fathers lady sees the pic and tells him to tell the mother to not send anymore nudes. Father does it

Who's in the wrong? How could this have been handled better?

 

[Mr.FOH]

The Nigha is in the wrong. The baby is literally latched on to the breast. Him and his lady can have several seats

 

[Devilinurear]

He is in wrong for going along with what his girl said. That is his child feeding on a breast he has seen before.
Message should not have been sent and he should check his girl.

 

[hu3ypdadon]

He’s in the wrong

 

[Kasgoinjail]

His lady is a hater
Like that man don’t know what those titties taste like
Insecure

 

[ZEupTWN]

The mother is a bird for that shyt...she know what the hell she was doing

And why breh get the current involved?knowing what type of potential drama it would stir up....the lack of awareness all around is

 

[Carlton Banks]

Years ago this girl I was following on IG screamed on me cuz she posted a pic of her breast feeding in her stories and I said something about her titty. Mind you I've known this chick since high school and we always used to joke around like that. She messaged me on some "DON'T SEXUALIZE ME FEEDING MY CHILD!"

Well bytch, don't pull your titties out and post it for the world to see

I was actually complimenting the goofy bytch. I just unfollowed her dumbass after that

 

[Luke Cage]

I desexualize it in the moment. Eveyone should feel comforable enough to feed their child whereever whenever.
but i don't need pics of the act. I can wait until your done before taking pics of the baby.
Peeing is natural too, but i'm not gonna send people a dikk pic just because i happen to be at the urinal when i want to show off my new shoes. Then turn around at like what? i was showing you my shoes and i happened to have my penis out pissing is natural. you don't need to sexualize my dikk.

 

[Thingsfallapart]

So he asked for a pic and this is the one she sent? She knew what she was doing. He could have left his current gf out of it though. He’s just asking for drama.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

1. Dad was a whole bytch for trying to pawn the blame off on his chick. She's not part of the parenting relationship. If you're going to say something, make it your own. 10 toes

2. Baby momma knew what she was doing.

3. New chick needs to leave. Both parents move funny style.

 

[jwinfield]

I mean, she didn't have any other pics of their child? She had to take one with her titty in his mouth?

 

[UncleTomFord15]

Everyone involved in this is corny

 

[FeloniousMonk]

His bm is ratchet as fukk.

Wonder how many dudes she sent that to though...

 

[BigE214]

She's not that obtuse that she couldn't have sent another pic.

I personally wouldn't have even let my current situation know about the pic. Bro a fool for bringing that headache upon himself. They need to quit BSn and get back together. Both of em lame

 

[feelosofer]

Everyone was wrong.

The baby mamma was trolling him and she knew what she was doing.

The man shouldn't have tried to foist the blame on his baby mama and then shame her for sending the pics. If he had an issue he should have stood on his own two and not involve her.

Current GF should have not made such a huge deal out this. But there may be more to the story.