Just get a dog. They are way easier to control and don’t talk back.

You would rather be hardheaded instead of heeding wise instruction
A woman without direction is on the road to self destruction
- Thecoli
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Just get a dog. They are way easier to control and don’t talk back.
At a certain point the shyt tests have to end. it's hilarious women likening themselves to children. The same rules apply. You let them slide, they disrespect you further.
Theres needs to be an example of what yall talkin about. Alot of things isnt wrong or right so what about you as a man makes her have to concede to you? Most the coli men are weak anyway so she should fight you dudes
My girl gives me the silent treatment and go sleep in the other room after I call her out on some bs… and I leave her there until she wants to act like an adult again.
I cheat all the time because you’d be a fool to trust any person with all of your heart. I keep my options open, as I know she does on the low as well.
if any good looking woman have Instagram… she has options in her eyes.
you can’t control or change a woman though. She’s allowed to have her own life. Have friends, go on trips, and go out sometimes with her homegirls. It just can’t be her priority or done frequently. Otherwise you need to say something and she needs to respect your relationship.
my girl has male friends, but she’s not allowed to meet up with them or be on the phone yapping to no nikka. Instagram and all that picture liking and simps leaving heart eyes is already a stretch…
I’m not to worried about what she does when she’s not in my presence… but if she’s hoeing and I find out… umma give that hoe a black eye.![]()
You're in dangerous water with all that freedom.My girl gives me the silent treatment and go sleep in the other room after I call her out on some bs… and I leave her there until she wants to act like an adult again.
I cheat all the time because you’d be a fool to trust any person with all of your heart. I keep my options open, as I know she does on the low as well.
if any good looking woman have Instagram… she has options in her eyes.
you can’t control or change a woman though. She’s allowed to have her own life. Have friends, go on trips, and go out sometimes with her homegirls. It just can’t be her priority or done frequently. Otherwise you need to say something and she needs to respect your relationship.
my girl has male friends, but she’s not allowed to meet up with them or be on the phone yapping to no nikka. Instagram and all that picture liking and simps leaving heart eyes is already a stretch…
I’m not to worried about what she does when she’s not in my presence… but if she’s hoeing and I find out… umma give that hoe a black eye.![]()
You're in dangerous water with all that freedom.
But I see it's only to give you freedom to do what you want
Attention whoring on social media. That social media best be dead dead or family photo central, strictly. all that back n forth chit chat all damn day is distracting and dangerous.What would/wouldn’t you allow from what I posted? How would you handle it?
I don't think it's about wrong or right. A lot of women are looking for a Captain that's secure and firm in his beliefs and decision making. The captain isn't going to be always right.
I think an example could be about her hanging out late at night. Will you set a time or leave it up in the air?
Woman hate it when the silent treatment doesn't workMy girl gives me the silent treatment and go sleep in the other room after I call her out on some bs… and I leave her there until she wants to act like an adult again.
Attention whoring on social media. That social media best be dead dead or family photo central, strictly. all that back n forth chit chat all damn day is distracting and dangerous.
Male friends that weren't around from middle school. And they best have a wife kids and keep it at holiday cards/ birthday gatherings. Dude need to be a damn super square christian.
Girl trips. Never. Girl trip to the mall...
It makes sense if you allow it so you can hide in plain site with dirt but def under no other circumstance.