thats just my poor grammar. She has 1BD and 3 kids, then I was referring to who has custody.
My ex-girl father has her oldest
Her ex-husband parents have custody of the second, they stay in Texas
She has custody of her 3rd.
i don't know if you trolling or not... but i'm going to try and help you
first off..... lord i've typed and erased this 3 times.... i don't know what the fukk you should do first
this is the worst shyt i've ever even heard of
ok in no specific order... the first THINGS you need to do
get in contact with the people who have her kids... speak to them with love and respect... act like you are asking because you are worried about your child... AND NEVER BADMOUTH HER TO THEM.... you want your kid right???? hold off on the anger
a. find out exactly why she doesn't have her kids... write this shyt down cause it will be used in court.. dont worry about why SHE says... you get it directly from them
b. AFTER finding out why she doesn't have them, ask them if they'd testify... they might not... they might not tell you if you ask them before... so save this part for last
find out if she uses any drugs and what kind.... this way you can be clean on court day, say exactly what drugs she's on, and demand a drug test that day cause she be high around your kids
get an AMAZING lawyer... she's a broke bum broad... she probably ain't gonna have shyt... don't go cheap... this is your child
get any and ALL paperwork that shows money, bills, anything paid for her or your child... don't matter if it's a stick of gum... get that shyt together to show who was doing what around there
get an eviction notice, get it notorized, get copies, kick her out... you being the stable one with a home, a job, not on drugs, not lost custody of other kids, looks a lot better than a jobless, homeless woman
get some character witnesses, not only the ones to say she ain't shyt... but more important.. the ones who will come there and say how you do everything, supply everything, and all she does is get high around the kids and party and drink
then once you have ALL that.... go to court...
you still might lose... but that's all you can do
if she's as shytty as you say, you should win this or at the least get 50/50 custody where you don't pay CS.... make it a point that you just want your child and you dont even want her money either... makes you look better still
she's a woman.. she gonna have to damn near be typhoid mary to lose her child