She going to try to put me on child support :(

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u should consider what is best for the child vs what is best for u.

if the kid is used to her being the main caregiver, then i think u should just take the L and pay up cuz its what is easiest on your kid and if anyone should suffer between a parent & a kid it should be the parent. it will also be hard on your son being away from his sibling from her previous relationship.

however, if you're the main caregiver or you guys contribute equally try to make a deal with her where she gives u primary custody with weekend visits at least until she gets back on her feet & has her other kids in one home. just promise not to charge her child support (your op says u don't want it) as an incentive for her to give in. stress her needing to get her other kids to help convince her this is the best decision.

I think its best that I have him. That way she can party as much as she wants to without any responsibilities. She wanna act like she's fighting for her other 2 kids but I cant tell. Her dad lets her see her oldest once a month (we live in the same city). Her middle child is in texas so she gets pics of him every once in awhile. and her 2nd youngest. I've been watching over him to point him in the right direction. I didn't want him to be fatherless. His real father is now becoming stable and is in his life more. He's 4 and knows I'm not his dad.

But this weekend, shes seen my son all of 10 minutes. Because she's in and out and doesn't want to be around me which I could give a fukk less. But atleast be there for your son.
 

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I'm admit the enabler, I'm not denying how badly I fukked up.

I wasn't really seeking her out like that. One night I was at Captain D's eating my family and I get a phone call. I asked her how she got my number and she told me a mutual friend gave it to her. She was inviting me out to the bar with her and her friends. She made it sound like it was a get together. I get there and it's just her and her wingwoman.. I asked her about being married and she said they were done and getting a divorce, she said he was already fukkkin other chicks so it wasn't gonna be no problem. I lost some friends because morally its all kinds of fukked up.
 

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24 with 4 kids :huhldup:
Dayum bruh if this shyt is true that's a massive L

But if what you said is true then you might have a good case tho. Just make sure you document everything and don't fall into any of her traps between now and the court shyt.
Why do you have to give her 30 days notice? Is she on the lease?

Or you could end up paying child support for your child PLUS the ones that were living with ya'll:huhldup:
 

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I am assuming you are in your 30's, women are no longer as picky, their hopes of meeting 6'3", muscular, perfect jaw line have long being dashed, you could have ate hella good:stopitslime: but you settled for a woman without her shyt together with multiple baby daddies and kids :mjlol:. and you live in ATL :russ:..you played yourself. Let me guess. she find the right SIMP, became the most affectionate and submissive women you ever met, gave you the p*ssy(only thing she brings to the table) and you fell for it :mjlol:.


Should have ran the other way, once i hear kids, I ghost, its not worth entertaining just to get sex.:ufdup:
 

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Dayum bruh if this shyt is true that's a massive L

But if what you said is true then you might have a good case tho. Just make sure you document everything and don't fall into any of her traps between now and the court shyt.
Why do you have to give her 30 days notice? Is she on the lease?

Or you could end up paying child support for your child PLUS the ones that were living with ya'll:huhldup:
i wish I was trolling.

She don't pay rent, I paid for everything, the food for the kids were basically from WIC. I even paid for daycare for my and her kid. She says the law says I got gotta give her 30 days, whether true or IDK. I told her to grip by Friday or her shyt going to goodwill
 
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i wish I was trolling.

She don't pay rent, I paid for everything, the food for the kids were basically from WIC. I even paid for daycare for my and her kid. She says the law says I got gotta give her 30 days, whether true or IDK. I told her to grip by Friday or her shyt going to goodwill

Enough!! I'm not just talking to you here OP, but any dude accepting broke, crazy, bum bytches into their worlds. Like why though?? I see people post about how they love black women and want black families, but y'all keep sticking your dikks into crazy women of ALL races. If y'all don't get some standards....jeez. What about the children? All these intelligent SANE black women out here and some of y'all find bottom feeders to carry on your legacies?! Do better....
 
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