why is it hard to believe that I lost it at 25. There are virgins out there older than me. I'm introverted and wasn't putting myself out there like that.This nikka trolling ya'll
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why is it hard to believe that I lost it at 25. There are virgins out there older than me. I'm introverted and wasn't putting myself out there like that.This nikka trolling ya'll
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why is it hard to believe that I lost it at 25. There are virgins out there older than me. I'm introverted and wasn't putting myself out there like that.

Dayum breh so you were like 25 when you lost your virginity?im 29, lost my v the same year I met her. I'm not experienced with women like that. And it ain't my lifestyle to mess with hoes. Else I would have had a roster while i was with her.


Wait, how many diff bd does she have?One of many red flags. But it was all with the same dude and they were married so I brushed it off.

I was with you til the bolded breh.still an L breh
let Neo tell you a lil story
so theres this chic that I grew up with, she's younger than me, our fams were close
she was in love with me from jump
sme things went down, she went to live with her mother some states away, had a hard life, became a stripper
got impregnated not 1, not 2, not 3 (I feel like Lebron right now)
but FOUR times, and I hear she's pregnant again right now
so I saw said chic early this yr when I was in her city, saw her briefly (I didn't go looking for her, she came to where I was)
she's there tellin folks how she still wants me (I didn't know at the time, they told me later after she left)
so she got my number while she was there
so we hit each other up in texts
she's in the texts trying to feel me out, trying to see if I'm a simp like you (no offense OP)
this is a stripper with 4 children, 1 on the way, tryna get me, a single unmarried no children at ALL breh....
she's tryna get me to save her
breh get thealllll the way out of here with that
Neo don't play them games
and she's mad sexy too.... she's sexy, a freak, but I know what type of woman she is just based on her occupation and the 4 children
ain't no way in the world anything could ever go down between me and this girl
point is: brehs, we gotta be more selective
you know you was wrong for even steppin up in that situation. You knew what kinda person she was when you got with her
don't you listen to J Cole? Don't save her, she don't wanna be saved![]()

Edit: Oh shyt I was hoping I miscounted or something. That's unfortunate brehwhy is it hard to believe that I lost it at 25. There are virgins out there older than me. I'm introverted and wasn't putting myself out there like that.

Dayum breh so you were like 25 when you lost your virginity?
And ended up being trapped by single mother 3X in the same year?
Nooo he wasn't ready *kevin hart voice*
Seriously breh shyt ain't even fair
you fell victim to a succubus
It's like she smelled blood in the water and capitalized
You weren't trynna hear anyone and didn't see the red flags b/c the p*ssy slapped some blinders on yo ass.
Talking bout some happily ever after buying a house for her and your 1/4 kid while she's out partying
I wouldn't wish that on anyone below my top 3 enemies
Wait, how many diff bd does she have?
b/c you were only talking bout one of the kids living part time with ya'll. what about the other ones?
I was with you til the bolded breh.
That ignorance somehow negates the whole post
Edit: Oh shyt I was hoping I miscounted or something. That's unfortunate breh
It's not just the virginity at 25 thing, it's that you waited till then PLUS ended up getting trapped by a single mother w/in the same year.
How many chicks you been with since ya'll got together (n/h)? Meanwhile errbody tried to tell you how she got around plus you yourself think she's currently getting dug out.
I'm not trynna slut shame or whatever but maybe you should've gotten with someone on your wavelength as far as sexual experience or lifestyle in general.
But then again type of woman that's best for you probably wouldn't have got you sprung like the mixed sm did
You fell victim to a wolf breh
Hopefully this doesn't get you on the all women ain't shyt wave
Horrible advice.u should consider what is best for the child vs what is best for u.
if the kid is used to her being the main caregiver, then i think u should just take the L and pay up cuz its what is easiest on your kid and if anyone should suffer between a parent & a kid it should be the parent. it will also be hard on your son being away from his sibling from her previous relationship.
however, if you're the main caregiver or you guys contribute equally try to make a deal with her where she gives u primary custody with weekend visits at least until she gets back on her feet & has her other kids in one home. just promise not to charge her child support (your op says u don't want it) as an incentive for her to give in. stress her needing to get her other kids to help convince her this is the best decision.
Or, he's just really dumb.p*ssy game had to be crazy for u to fukk up like that.
Dayum breh sounds like a horror movie or cautionary taleShe has 1 BD, 3 kids with him. She actually was 4 months pregnant with their 4, the night we went out, she knew she was aborting it so she binged drank to her hearts content. I'm disgusted the more I think about it.
I lost it to a wannabe instagram thot that worked in one of the offices I use to support. It wasn't a good first experience but we ended on okay terms.


she was 20 when I met her and the kids were 1, 2 and 3. Our 4 year point will actually be in September.
