She left me brehs

[bigde09]

We were together for 5 years, met at 25 and she just told me she don't wanna be with me anymore. We were going through rough patches but I was willing to fight through them but i guess she wasn't.

Brehs I bought this beautiful engagement ring custom made and I was ready and boom she's done with me just like that after all the shyt we went through. It feels like I lost my best friend and I just don't know how I'm gonna get through this shyt. I ain't never hurt this bad before. I even begged her like a fukkkng simp even though i knew it was pointless. I can't eat and I'm barely sleeping I'm scared of what I might do

I’ve been there. Can’t eat, can’t sleep, checking her social media daily.

 

[tuckgod]

yup….. sadly @tuckgod strikes again…..

Just like he smashed that other coli breh poster that’s been quiet since that got exposed

And after he’s done with her…. He finna send her to @The God Poster and she finna be ran through in them Diddy Streets

Cold World

 

[7th Letter Specialist]

Give it some time

If you're both the same age, something interesting is about to happen for you.

Your 30s are probably the second most transformative time in your life.

She'll realize, after some time alone, the value of a committed and safe relationship.

You will realize your value on the market, especially after a tried and tested 5 years and proposal. You will be seen as stable and safe if/when you choose to date.

Thats when the interesting part will happen. And you will both choose to either reconcile or never speak again.

So give it time and don't do anything brash. Also, don't listen to the internet either, myself included. Our opinions don't take into consideration your experiences with her. We will either be too positive or too negative. Seek therapy instead. Good luck brother.

OP, don’t speak to her again.

 

[Amerikan Melanin]

Take a moment to self reflect. Mm

WHY were yall going thru a rough patch? Explain.

How long was this rough patch?

What can you better about yourself?

Did y’all live together?

 

[Peter Popoff]

OP, are you a lesbian and the femme in the relationship?

Just get you some new pụssy. You'll be aight.

 

[Chrishaune]

You live in America.
Your eyes will be opened to the reality, most of these women are not wives

 

[Mike Nasty]

We were together for 5 years, met at 25 and she just told me she don't wanna be with me anymore. We were going through rough patches but I was willing to fight through them but i guess she wasn't.

Brehs I bought this beautiful engagement ring custom made and I was ready and boom she's done with me just like that after all the shyt we went through. It feels like I lost my best friend and I just don't know how I'm gonna get through this shyt. I ain't never hurt this bad before. I even begged her like a fukkkng simp even though i knew it was pointless. I can't eat and I'm barely sleeping I'm scared of what I might do

After this there's not much you can do. Take your L and move on

 

[Water]

Take a moment to self reflect. Mm

WHY were yall going thru a rough patch? Explain.

How long was this rough patch?

What can you better about yourself?

Did y’all live together?

She said i didn't support her the way she needed during some hard times but she didn't realize how she needed to be supported until recently which I don't think is fair. I tried my best. She also was pushing for me to propose last year but I wasn't ready so I spent the last year getting ready but seems like she spent that time detaching.

For the last 6 or so months sex became sparse and she would get annoyed when I tried pushing up on her and for the last two months we just didn't so anything anymore. That built resentment in me and we would have petty Lil arguments over bs.

 

[Chrishaune]

This. Women don’t break up to be single. She found someone else and was just plotting her escape.

She most likely found someone that won't commit, and she knows that. It's an easy excuse for her to run around like she wants to.

 

[King_Kamala61]

I’ve been there. Can’t eat, can’t sleep, checking her social media daily.

.....not me

I unleashed my inner sexual deviant degenerate alter ego full throttle.

Got so bad sex workers were spending the night and calling me with new roleplay ideas and outfits and costumes. One of em was even learning Haitian Creole couldn't find the Louisiana Kreyòl. I wanted to roleplay as a Creole gum show detective and she was gonna be the sexy siren that opens up for Louis Armstrong with her hair laid like Billie Holiday GOODTIMES

 

[Abstract83]

I'm sorry you're going thru this breh. Cry to yourself let that shyt out don't hold it in. Vent to close loved ones that you can trust. Like someone said. Work on self reflection. Figure out how you can better yourself with healing. Workout, play some music distract yourself with some hobbies.

Whatever you do try not to beg again. Be humble try not to pick up that phone unless she reach out to reconcile. But don't sit and wait for it either. You're still young you have plenty of time. Work on yourself. And make sure you're healed before dating seriously again. You don't wanna bring that heart break to the next person. And you don't want to make them a rebound either. Good luck with everything breh

 

[bigde09]

When I was younger a break up used to hurt like a mother fukker.

Now I’m like when they bounce. They are super fickle and it doesn’t matter how much time you put into the relationship…..once they lose that spark for you it’s never coming back.

Now I peep the signs and bounce before they can do it first. Women break up with you mentally first before they actually leave you. The past couple of months of her being dry with you was her slowly detaching herself from you.

You begging like a simp was the worst thing you can do because you validated her ego with that.

If you kept it G and said “all right good luck in everything you do”. That shyt would have fukked her up on some reverse uno shyt.

Block her and never reach out again, focus on yourself, throw yourself into your hobbies and hit the gym and you’ll be alright

 

[tuckgod]

If you really want her, the new nikka magic will fade eventually with the new guy, make sure you’re in a desirable position when it does and don’t play yourself in the meantime.

 

[jdubnyce]

She said i didn't support her the way she needed during some hard times but she didn't realize how she needed to be supported until recently which I don't think is fair. I tried my best. She also was pushing for me to propose last year but I wasn't ready so I spent the last year getting ready but seems like she spent that time detaching.

For the last 6 or so months sex became sparse and she would get annoyed when I tried pushing up on her and for the last two months we just didn't so anything anymore. That built resentment in me and we would have petty Lil arguments over bs.

expound

If one side is pushing for marriage, then you were obviously not on the same wave length

I think the support piece is unfair as well. If she just realized what type of support she requires, I think it's only fair to allow for you the opportunity to provide that support in another situation if it should arise. You can't go back in time to do what she would have wanted you to do

Once sex leaves, it's done done breh


Like I said in previous post, it's hard, but you gotta focus on you now. There's no more "us"

 

[Coco Loco]