She Should Know You Want the Cheeks...

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

This part!! I tell people to always eliminate that grey area in relationships. I give no room the wriggle or squirm or twist my words. Don't get yourselves jammed up out here

Exactly. Being less vocal does not improve your chances of getting laid. It's a scary way out and any grown man should not be taking chances.

I remember a while ago a good friend of mine was dating a woman that he later married. I remember him telling me he really liked her, but she said that she was just looking for a "platonic travel partner."

He didn't like that, and I told him that if he wanted to have sex with her while they travel he needed to say that.

He took my advice, she agreed, i'm sure they smashed viciously while traveling and now she's his wife and they have been happily married over 5 years.

Fortune favors the bold.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I'm still doing better than most though, without having to utter "let's go fukk"
I guess it's in how you say it

It’s possible

Just the whole situation sounds like you should just pay for the p*ssy and save yourself the time/hassle.

Had my homie tell me for hours how paying for it just saves him time and his mental peace now


No games… just p*ssy and ass cheeks in exchange for money



Just cut out all the bullshyt. I’m about to look at it all as just a business transaction myself. Don’t got the balls to visit whorehouses in the states yet

 

[NotAnFBIagent]

Linking up after booty call hours, you as an adult should already know what's up

 

[3rdWorld]

times are different.
I think a lot of men believe things are the same as they were while in highschool.

truth is...
women are fukking like men now.
they arent as delicate as we grew up believing.

You def can be upfront with them because they already know what time it is.

all those games and whatnot are done for.
you may not want to feel like your negotiating for hooker services but there is a gray area when it comes to casual sex.

you gotta look at it from their pov...
why would she want to fukk a dude casually and get nothing but dikk for it?

they can get dikk anywhere

No woman ever asked me why I'm pulling into the motel or bnb

 

[cyndaquil]

Oh I'm definitely aware. My biggest turn off is when I catch a chic trying to leverage sex to try to finesse me into a relationship. I look at sex as an even swap and an exchange of energy. We're both getting something outta it so don't try and add an extra tax on the backend

Had this same thing happen to me with a woman on tinder.

She said "You're my type and I'm very picky. I'm not looking for anything serious, just someone to fukk and chill with"
I'm like ok cool then she doubles back and says "not that I just want to do that but I wanna go do things and hangout too"

I unmatched her. Yes it would have been easy p*ssy but no she tryna serve it up then hope I date her for real which isnt what I was looking for from her. Hence her doubling back tryna leave the door open for dates and stuff

 

[Scaaar]

Exactly. Being less vocal does not improve your chances of getting laid. It's a scary way out and any grown man should not be taking chances.

I remember a while ago a good friend of mine was dating a woman that he later married. I remember him telling me he really liked her, but she said that she was just looking for a "platonic travel partner."

He didn't like that, and I told him that if he wanted to have sex with her while they travel he needed to say that.

He took my advice, she agreed, i'm sure they smashed viciously while traveling and now she's his wife and they have been happily married over 5 years.

Fortune favors the bold.

Salute to the breh for speaking up and locking down his wife. If he didn't she would have put him in the friendzone and just been the trip guy. I tell all the women I deal with that I don't do trips to intimate locations with people I'm not intimate with. Now that doesn't mean just sex but we gotta have a level of comfort and closeness that sex is always there. But these brehs just gotta realize that these chicks are just as horny and wanna get put through the mattress. They mess the game up out here trying to shame women for being the sexual beings that they are

 

[Mordith]

I'm a grown man. I have never discussed sex with a woman before fukking them and it works every time...

 

[Scaaar]

Had this same thing happen to me with a woman on tinder.

She said "You're my type and I'm very picky. I'm not looking for anything serious, just someone to fukk and chill with"
I'm like ok cool then she doubles back and says "not that I just want to do that but I wanna go do things and hangout too"

I unmatched her. Yes it would have been easy p*ssy but no she tryna serve it up then hope I date her for real which isnt what I was looking for from her. Hence her doubling back tryna leave the door open for dates and stuff

She definitely was trying to back door you into a relationship. Those chicks be the worst too. They know they're the relationship type and try to latch on and lock you down after the first date while still trying to act nonchalant

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Eh I disagree. Partly because there's women that absolutely want to vibe into sex. They dont wanna feel like a hoe so they want it to "just happen" but the invitation still has to be sent nonverbally in those cases. It depends on who you're dealing with. But ideally at the end of the night there should he no confusion on her part whether you want to fukk her or not

1. If she's willing to "catch a vibe" she is already willing to have sex with you. Nothing is going to make me "catch a vibe" out the blue for a man.

2. Honestly that's her problem respectfully.

She wouldn't feel like a hoe unless the man she was dealing with had already invested time into her and she already understood his intentions.

She wouldn't feel guilty about "being a hoe" unless she was already unsure about the man or using sex to trying to segue into something more serious.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

What's "plan English"?

Direct language that communicates your intentions.

 

[LiveFromLondon]

Its whatever at this, ish is exasperating

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

That's true and it's exactly why I prefer dealing with older women. We both know what we want, why act coy about it?

I agree. That's where maturity comes in.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Linking up after booty call hours, you as an adult should already know what's up

Jammed up language

 

[SheWantTheD]

Some people can read between the lines some can’t.

Before the sex even happens I’m gon be kissing on you, rubbing ya thighs and ya booty.

So if I say come over to the crib at 4 am in the morning you should know what it is.

But reddit has shown me that a lot of people are a lost cause and if it isn’t right in your face they second guess.

Read a post weeks ago, some guy’s gym crush asked him if he wanted to come over and watch a movie. He was like “I’m not sure if she wanted to watch a movie or get it poppin’!”

Honestly, being that gullible and naive is not good. Children and teens should understand these things to protect themselves. Like an adult being inappropriate and asking you something like if you would like to enter their room or home with just the 2 of you.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Oh I'm definitely aware. My biggest turn off is when I catch a chic trying to leverage sex to try to finesse me into a relationship. I look at sex as an even swap and an exchange of energy. We're both getting something outta it so don't try and add an extra tax on the backend

I wouldn't consider it an even swap but that's on the women to get a read on the circumstances. I understand the argument.