African Peasant
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Take advices from Coli women breh
She Should Know You Want the Cheeks...
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That sounds like you stated your intentions to me.
Nobody said ya'll gotta go all in.
Immature, insecure flakes that dont really want you dont like it when a man is direct. Its in a man's best interest to avoid those types. The sex aint even worth it. The sooner a man understands this, the better it is for him.
O.T.I.S.
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shyt, pass her on to the homiesHad this same thing happen to me with a woman on tinder.
She said "You're my type and I'm very picky. I'm not looking for anything serious, just someone to fukk and chill with"
I'm like ok cool then she doubles back and says "not that I just want to do that but I wanna go do things and hangout too"
I unmatched her. Yes it would have been easy p*ssy but no she tryna serve it up then hope I date her for real which isnt what I was looking for from her. Hence her doubling back tryna leave the door open for dates and stuff
O.T.I.S.
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Richard Glidewell
Yall done tore all the bottom of ya shoes w/me!!!
Unless She hiding crazy body her face dont qualify her for my 4 am time.......the ass she would have e to have to balance against the rest of her gotta be legendary status
Scustin Bieburr
Baby baybee baybee UUUGH
Its something young people should be taught at school
-Its normal to be a late bloomer. Don't compare yourself to others.
- The things you see in books, movies and social media is fake. Do not use that as a basis for what relationships and courtship should look like.
-Girls, you can approach a boy you're interested in and just tell him "I want to go out on a date with you"
-Boys, don't try to "game" or "finesse" women into going out with you. Approach her and give her a respectful compliment
"I think you're beautiful. Do you have anyone youre interested in? I want to go out with you"
-Girls, reject a man respectfully "sorry, I appreciate the compliment but I'm not interested"
-Boys, understand you can't negotiate a yes out of someone who has clearly given you a no. Take the L like a man and move on.
-Luck is a factor behind dating. Don't continue to blame yourself and others for bad luck. Accept that your time will come eventually and failure is a part of life.
-Anything outside of a clear expression of interest from a woman which she verifies should be treated as a 'no' enthusiastic/unambiguous consent is valid consent. Anything outside of that is a risk not worth taking.
Etc. These miscommunication issues can be nipped in the bud if teenagers are taught early how to speak to the opposite sex, how to avoid red flags, and how to just be more honest and dignified with each other. Parents clearly are failing to teach their children this shyt and the results speak for themselves.
FixedStupid people problems I guess
Belize King
I got concepts of a plan.
That’s crazy, but…. people want to be courted. You have to be courted first. If a random person told you, I want to blow your back out tonight, you would say no even if you were attracted and needed the adjustment.
You know damn well then 30-40 men would give it to you if you asked for it.
He courts you, sees how receptive you are to his advances/game, then invites you out. All a while, he’s trying to smash. YOU know that as well. You say yes to the date, yall go out and have a good time.
He drops you off to your place. Now the question is, should he say, “I want us to break your headboard right now.”?
Yes, we are grown but a least ten years ago, unless I’m grabbing on your thighs, the small of your back, and whispering in your ear, I may have to ask for another date. Again the end goal is your cookie and cookie only. Date two and three is where I may get the signs that you want to smash. It finally happens but now we go together.
If I was upfront, no cookie would have been given. I guess the point is, she what time she is on during date one. Many men don’t want to scare the prey off though. It’s all a game and it’s hard for adults to be adults.
I’m glad to be out the game.
Hmmmmm
Idk if I agree with all those. I don't think women should be pursuing men and that respectful shyt is not always an option. Being polite only work 50% of the time honestly.
Scustin Bieburr
Baby baybee baybee UUUGH
Well the current status quo is that women are mad that the man they want isnt approaching them and they (sometimes quite literally) cry about it instead of just approaching him and expressing unambiguous interest.
If youre cool with the status quo then okay, but other cultures have actually normalized people just going up and talking to the people they want to go out with. If you put all the burden on men to approach and express interest, what you see is a lot of men going through all these extra steps to protect themselves from the embarrassment that comes with misreading a woman's behavior and ambiguous words as romantic interest. You see men also realizing too late that the woman he liked was interested(he assumed she was just being friendly) but was just sitting around waiting for HIM to make a move.
Then that man runs the risk of falling into that manosphere pipeline because navigating this shyt is so confusing and embarassing that he actually believes the promise that those influencers use to lure men in, the promise to "explain" female behavior and give men the "truth" about what women are REALLY like and how to get them to go out with you. And typically most of the advice begins with "ignore women. They're too stupid to actually know what they want and dont take no for an answer. They actually love persistence."
Women should also fear rejection when approaching a man they are interested in because it builds their character too. Men should also know how to say "no" to a woman and respectfully decline. Both men and women dont feel respected by the opposite sex and this is what fuels the gender wars that clowns online have used to feed their addiction to attention and fast money.
MegaTronBomb!
Power is in my hair nikka
This definitely will clear up any ambiguity.....What is doesn't account for is that many women have hangups with sex,especially if it's outside of a relationship.
But, there is much value in tact... but that's only as valuable as the recipients level of comprehension.
For every woman that would prefer directly expressed intentions, there is another who just wants sex to "happen"...and directly asking for it is what will get you a no.
It's not as extreme as that app someone made where both parties have to give authentication to their consent to sex....But with how many people are entering into adulthood with low social skills and ability to read cues, this might save you from an awkward interaction.....or save your life.
But, there is much value in tact... but that's only as valuable as the recipients level of comprehension.
For every woman that would prefer directly expressed intentions, there is another who just wants sex to "happen"...and directly asking for it is what will get you a no.
It's not as extreme as that app someone made where both parties have to give authentication to their consent to sex....But with how many people are entering into adulthood with low social skills and ability to read cues, this might save you from an awkward interaction.....or save your life.
Who gets mad .women should understand all straight men who aren’t impotent are p*ssy hounds no matter what they say
