She Should Know You Want the Cheeks...
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Scustin Bieburr
Baby baybee baybee UUUGH
And that right there is exactly what a dude who wont take no for an answer uses to justify continued attempts. He thinks "nay shes just playing hard to get. I see how it is. Lemme keep trying". To him its not harassment, its devotion that she should be respecting and appreciating him for so when she gets more firm with her rejection he's confused and angry. He has completely failed to understand her "no" because he has been conditioned to hear it as a "not yet"There are other solutions than just going up to random men and then asking him to date her.
Men's easy access to p*ssy is not my concern.
It's dangerous and makes her look easy. If a woman told me she has issues getting approached I would tell her to get a better social life, develop better social skills and become a badder bytch.
I only ask men out if we already have an established relationship (not necessarily romantic). I ask people I am cool with out all the time. That's how I killed my fear of rejection. Not by throwing myself at any man who looks decent.
Asking a man out on a date isnt the same as asking him for sex. I've had women ask me out for a coffee, I've known women who approached the men that are now their husbands at a party and took the initiative to exchange contact information.
I get having to assume that a man will be predatory and so feeling like approaching him is unsafe, and depending on your experience you or someone you know probably had a man immediately start talking about sex within 5 minutes of a conversation so I understand the hesitation.
But this is why I also specify that the education should be for BOTH genders so men also know that they are not entitled to sex from a woman just because theres basic romantic interest. She has to feel safe around you, she has to feel ready, and she has to feel like she can trust you. That is something that comes over time and the sooner men understand that(as boys) the more accustomed they will get to understanding that a woman chooses when and if she will have sex with a man and it is up to him to be mature enough to either accept that or walk away, explaining that he understands her boundaries but physical intimacy is crucial for him to feel a deep bond with his partner and to feel attractive and valued by her.
Being attracted to women and being in constant pursuit of p*ssy aren't the same things.Who gets mad .women should understand all straight men who aren’t impotent are p*ssy hounds no matter what they say
If all the men you are around are trying to fukk anything that moves idk what to tell you. I'm sure that's your reality but I have seen too many instances of men turning it down and maintaining a certain standard to label all men as desperate.
Goat poster
KANG LIFE
OP trying to put yall on game.
So many men in 2025 catch cases cause they can't communicate properly and only see what they want to see.
Hope you brehs learn how to talk to women
So many men in 2025 catch cases cause they can't communicate properly and only see what they want to see.
Hope you brehs learn how to talk to women
All men are as faithful or well behaved as their options even the ones you THINK aren’tBeing attracted to women and being in constant pursuit of p*ssy aren't the same things.
If all the men you are around are trying to fukk anything that moves idk what to tell you. I'm sure that's your reality but I have seen too many instances of men turning it down and maintaining a certain standard to label all men as desperate.
. If they tell you different they are lying. If a man could get away with it with out consequences he would bend over women you would never they think would look at or touch.Then he will go home kiss his wife in the mouth and sleep like a baby
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King_Kamala61
:mjlit: A Fat Black Nasty MFer :mjlit:
What's wrong with a HANDJOB?Anytime you invite someone of the opposite sex to your house past 10pm that's not your siblings it should be implied what time it is. But I'm vocal as well too about wanting to f*ck and get nasty so there's no grey area or confusion when you get here. I've kicked a chick out and bushed her for coming over at 2am and then trying to flip it into just a cuddle session/hand job. This ain't middle school
Yeah it's my fault a man comes on too strong. If I only asked another man out he doesn't know about he would fall back. What kinda logic is that?
You'll have to try that on a more desperate women sir.
I understand that asking out a man on a date is not the same as asking him for sex but it does communicate to him that he gets to put in far less effort into you than he would a woman he was motivated to approach.
Giving men easy access to women is not something I support. You do not understand the entitlement that goes a long with making a man think you are available to him with no effort on his part. ESPECIALLY if we are talking about a man that doesn't approach women himself and has very little sexual options. That is a very dangerous
You don't understand the safety issues of women clearly.
The problem is a lot of brehs meeting women at work or in settings unsuited for uninhibited thoughts. I remember going to the school sports games and seeing girls dressed up like straight hookers. That was the best place to just pull a shorty to the side and let her know you got some hot and ready piping hot pipe waiting to be pulled out the box. Usually it’s dudes that never really had a playground for their sexual desires that end up like this. Just hemming and hawing with baddies hoping she’ll follow the yellow dikk road. smh. it’s never too late. Some of them gonna have to hit the Palladium on Grown Folks’ Night but it is what it is.
A woman can be up front about her intentions with a man without running around trying to pursue them. LolI think that the key to cutting a lot of BS out is women being up front and direct with their interest. If she dont flat out tell you she interested then you dont proceed. Men cant front like she was giving him vibes or try to foot in the door and wear a chicks down anymore. They know where they stand and have no choice but to accept it.
If a nikka dont accept a polite curve then thats on him.
Mordith
H.E.N.R.Y.
Humans are creatures of habit. Most people won't change from a strategy that works for them.The argument isn't about it "working"
Are those the only 2 phases you can think of?
The lack of creativity and unwillingness to have a direct conversation is frightening.
No amount of creativity can make explicitly asking a woman for sex look civilised or even sexy. Don't mistake crudeness for boldness
Now making your intentions known upfront that you are not looking for a relationship at the moment is quite different and admirable even
They both stated their intention. He didn’t pressure her. He told her that doesn't work for him and stepped away. Then she had a change of heart.
He stood 10 toes down like a man and she respected it. She respected it enough that she wanted to become his wife.
Listening to ya'll scary advice he would now be her travel bytch instead of a husband she loves and respects.
You scared to have standards?
You know what happens when you assume...