Im always direct however I just had a female friend say recently that asking for sex too soon can be a turn off. She also said asking for a kiss directly can be a turn off too, men should feel the vibe and initiate the kiss instead of asking for it.
I’ve had success both ways so I just chalk it up to each girl is different so just be direct anyway to save time and energy
If she dont want you or you go about it in a disrespectful or weak way. Aint no chick trippin if a nikka that got her drippin ask for a kiss or introduce sex into the convo.
You right each girl is different. So the focus should be on you and what you want and finding girls that are with that.
If you pressed for p*ssy you are subject to the whims of any random broad you come across. A lot of guys that get p*ssy are still pressed. Lying, playing games, playing whatever role or tricking or worse...scheming or the absolute worst...taking are all the result of being pressed for p*ssy and approaching sex in an unhealthy way. You step how you step, letting it be known what you want and she either gonna be with it or she not.
We often learn this way to late...I know I did

. Some never learn though.