She Should Know You Want the Cheeks...

[MicIsGod]

You leave a lot of ass on the table being this direct too early. A lot of women enjoy the “game” whether they say it or not. It is what it is.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

If I genuinely like you and see potential of you being a partner I’m not being upfront and straightforward of wanting to fukk you. Through my actions and demeanor that’s gonna happen naturally.

If I’m just trying to slut you out and catch my nut then I’m being upfront about why I’m here.

You don't tell a woman you want long term that you find her sexually desirable?

 

[RAX 010]

I never was about those innuendo games
Always found it weird when some women didn't appreciate my honesty

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I never was about those innuendo games
Always found it weird when some women didn't appreciate my honesty

There are a lot of childish adults.

 

[Da Bull Ace]

Being honest and upfront isn't just for her.

It's for you to set the tone of the relationship.

1. To protect yourself
2. To give her clarity
3. Establishes appropriate boundaries
4. Establishes yourself as the "leader" of the relationship (if you're into that)

Obviously sex can happen without a conversation but because it's an activity that runs off of hormones and chemicals it's always good to set a logical baseline.

I agree with all that I was just pointing out most times when women have these type of talks they dont mention that whatever rules they say men must follow dont apply to the nikkas they already like lol.

But as a man being direct is def the way to go it really only hurts us in the end

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I agree with all that I was just pointing out most times when women have these type of talks they dont mention that whatever rules they say men must follow dont apply to the nikkas they already like lol.

But as a man being direct is def the way to go it really only hurts us in the end

Most women barely have standards.

 

[ConPHIdential]

You don't tell a woman you want long term that you find her sexually desirable?

If I genuinely like you and see potential of you being a partner I’m not being upfront and straightforward of wanting to fukk you. Through my actions and demeanor that’s gonna happen naturally.

If I’m just trying to slut you out and catch my nut then I’m being upfront about why I’m here.

I’m sure most of the Men on this forum can learn from your advice because majority are inexperienced.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I’m sure most of the Men on this forum can learn from your advice because majority are inexperienced.

I'll take that as a "no."

They won't listen to me. They'll just keep doing what's easy.

 

[Cat piss martini]

40 SOMETHING YEAR OLD SINGLE N CHILDLESS FEMALE GIVIN ADVICE ON A MESSAGE BOARD FULLA THIRSTY INCELD



THIS CANT BE LIFE

Rabbi slurp and burp
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you learned to crawl.
you kept going back.......

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

But do you state it or do you just expect them to know. That's the question.

Lets be serious here.. You know damn well most men, who have never slept with the girl yet, are not plainly stating "please come over here so we can have sex tonight."

Now after the first time, yea you might flirt your way into saying it, or implying it. But still, the least sexy thing you will ever say to a woman is, "make sure it's known BEFORE you get here, that I want sex."


And most women, when talked to like that, BEFORE ever giving up sex, aren't going to rush over to give it to you when you're talking like that. They also want to be enticed and romanced into the sex. Not have it scheduled or first thing on your brain before they even put makeup on.

Again, if you been sleeping with her already, it's different.... But still, they want some sweet talking with this.



Any woman you can call up, anytime, and say "come over here cause i'm trying to fukk" and she just hops right up and comes over......... Will never been seen as anything more than that. And women and men know it and act accordingly

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Women should assume men want sex? But when women accuse ya'll of being brainless p*ssy hounds ya'll get mad.

How about you just state your intentions instead of expecting every woman you interact with to see you as some sort of sex addict?

The offense is saying that we're brainless

Every human wants sex. Even the man who will sleep with one woman, marry her, never cheat, and only do right by her..... still wanted to fukk her brains out the moment he saw her

Why do women act like they don't know this?

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

I love how using adult language is equated to an appointment.



Stating intentions is the opposite of entitlement. Expecting someone to "just know" you want to have sex is entitlement.

Men don't have these issues because men want to have sex with you from hello.. That's why they're talking to you about dating and meeting up in the first place!!

You think a man meets Halle Berry and then three weeks later decides he'd like to have sex with her tonight?

What planet are we on?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Lets be serious here.. You know damn well most men, who have never slept with the girl yet, are not plainly stating "please come over here so we can have sex tonight."

Now after the first time, yea you might flirt your way into saying it, or implying it. But still, the least sexy thing you will ever say to a woman is, "make sure it's known BEFORE you get here, that I want sex."


And most women, when talked to like that, BEFORE ever giving up sex, aren't going to rush over to give it to you when you're talking like that. They also want to be enticed and romanced into the sex. Not have it scheduled or first thing on your brain before they even put makeup on.

Again, if you been sleeping with her already, it's different.... But still, they want some sweet talking with this.



Any woman you can call up, anytime, and say "come over here cause i'm trying to fukk" and she just hops right up and comes over......... Will never been seen as anything more than that. And women and men know it and act accordingly

Like I said to another poster...ya'll got the vocabulary to hide your intentions but not the vocabulary to gracefully state your intentions? Got it.

I think I've already discussed the exact same points in this thread 5 times.



They lack of maturity and creativity makes it extremely obvious why relationships don't work.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Men don't have these issues because men want to have sex with you from hello.. That's why they're talking to you about dating and meeting up in the first place!!

You think a man meets Halle Berry and then three weeks later decides he'd like to have sex with her tonight?

What planet are we on?

You clearly don't understand what the premise of this thread is.

 

[Braman]

First of all this premise fails immediately bc it assumes women are normal, rational human human beings. They are not.

Second, I’ve been hearing women say that ol ‘just tell us what you want be direct’ re: sex since the 90s. And I’ve NEVER had to do it. Ever.

As everyone parrots, women know right off bat if they wanna fukk you. So you have nothing to gain by letting her know ‘you want sex’. Yea no shyt. And y’all really think y’all be spittin with that dumb shyt. Like it’s a flex.

Nah there’s a higher tier of confidence, game. You should KNOW she wanna fukk you, to the point it’s a forgone conclusion. And I ain’t in no rush I got something lined up when I drop you off! And she should FEEL that energy. She’ll resist one encounter max.

‘Hey, you know I wanna have sex right?’. Goofy