She Should Know You Want the Cheeks...

[RAX 010]

There are a lot of childish adults.

It'll save you a lot of trouble and headaches in the long run too
Like rape allegations and wasted time
Cuz once we are alone and start having drinks
Imo get handsy and real aggressive
Communication is the key

Even before we link I'm talking extra nasty just to weed out those who not gonna be cooperative

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Even worse, lets say you go on the trip and you agreed to be platonic travel buddies...sometimes one thing leads to another and yall end up fukkin being in settings that intimate. She might even try to blame you or have some resentment for fukkin her after yall agreed to be platonic.

But the absolute worst thing would be yall go out while traveling and she gets picked up by another breh and ends up getting her ass pushed through a mattress while you come back to your room alone beating your meat to some porno chick that looks like her

What the fukk is wrong with you nikkas?

Who do you know in real fukking life going through these scenarios?

Y'all done lost your marbles. Why would you even agree to board a plane with a chick you wasn't fukking already, in HOPES you gonna get some from someone who never once expressed wanting you romantically?

Who is making these birdbrain moves that y'all need to avoid so bad?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

First of all this premise fails immediately bc it assumes women are normal, rational human human beings. They are not.

Second, I’ve been hearing women say that ol ‘just tell us what you want be direct’ re: sex since the 90s. And I’ve NEVER had to do it. Ever.

As everyone parrots, women know right off bat if they wanna fukk you. So you have nothing to gain by letting her know ‘you want sex’. Yea no shyt. And y’all really think y’all be spittin with that dumb shyt. Like it’s a flex.

Nah there’s a higher tier of confidence, game. You should KNOW she wanna fukk you, to the point it’s a forgone conclusion. And I ain’t in no rush I got something lined up when I drop you off! And she should FEEL that energy. She’ll resist one encounter max.

‘Hey, you know I wanna have sex right?’. Goofy

You don't even understand the premise of this thread.



It's not about easy access to p*ssy. Went right over your head.

 

[MicIsGod]

I never was about those innuendo games
Always found it weird when some women didn't appreciate my honesty

It’s a mood killer breh. For some. No different than a bytch saying up front “I need you to help me take care of my kid I had with another nikka” instead of just fukking you and being nice for awhile.

 

[Braman]

Let me just drop this here:

Something switches on in a woman’s brain sexually when they in a car with you

If you’re not already, ALWAYS offer to pick her up for a date. Even if it’s annoying distance wise.

Women will say a lot, or put up a certain front, but it’s usually when certain boundaries are there to help them: the internet, texts, distance, even just the presence of a physical table….you remove those boundaries, if you on your shyt, they gon fold

What’s understood don’t gotta be said! If you pick up your date and y’all in the car there’s an extremely high chance she gon end up goin. You think you need to say ‘hey, you know I want you to gimme that sloppy toppy right?’

Never, ever ever ever ever take dating advice from women. Lmao Foh

 

[RAX 010]

First of all this premise fails immediately bc it assumes women are normal, rational human human beings. They are not.

Second, I’ve been hearing women say that ol ‘just tell us what you want be direct’ re: sex since the 90s. And I’ve NEVER had to do it. Ever.

As everyone parrots, women know right off bat if they wanna fukk you. So you have nothing to gain by letting her know ‘you want sex’. Yea no shyt. And y’all really think y’all be spittin with that dumb shyt. Like it’s a flex.

Nah there’s a higher tier of confidence, game. You should KNOW she wanna fukk you, to the point it’s a forgone conclusion. And I ain’t in no rush I got something lined up when I drop you off! And she should FEEL that energy. She’ll resist one encounter max.

‘Hey, you know I wanna have sex right?’. Goofy

But that doesn't apply to all women and no 2 situations are identical

I agree that most times you might blow your chance by bringing up sex to early or at the wrong time
And sometimes you have to expect that you might not even get no coochie this evening and just let the cards land where they may

But some situations call for you to be more assertive and in those situations the premise of the thread was born

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

It'll save you a lot of trouble and headaches in the long run too
Like rape allegations and wasted time
Cuz once we are alone and start having drinks
Imo get handsy and real aggressive
Communication is the key

Even before we link I'm talking extra nasty just to weed out those who not gonna be cooperative

It's also why you see such poor family planning.

How the hell is a woman gonna have a conversation with a man that won't talk about sex regarding an unplanned pregnancy and being a father?



Women really be out her playing with their lives.

 

[Braman]

But that doesn't apply to all women and no 2 situations are identical

I agree that most times you might blow your chance by bringing up sex to early or at the wrong time
And sometimes you have to expect that you might not even get no coochie this evening and just let the cards land where they may

But some situations call for you to be more assertive and in those situations the premise of the thread was born

Yes. So why is this a thread?!?!? Also, y’all tellin on yourself with the quality of women y’all baggin.

And that’s not to say bad chicks ain’t goin. They are. But we all know this: when you not really into a chick or she a throwaway, yea you gon say WHATEVER. But if a chick is bad enough, or ass phat enough, etc, yea Ngga you gon be a LIL more patient.

Like bruh I’m literally thinking of one of the thickest baddest bytches i ever seen. First date laid seeds didn’t smash. 2nd date smashed in the back of the car. I didn’t need to tell her ‘hey! You know I want that sex right’. This thread is stupid lmao

 

[RAX 010]

It’s a mood killer breh. For some. No different than a bytch saying up front “I need you to help me take care of my kid I had with another nikka” instead of just fukking you and being nice for awhile.

That's why you gotta pick the right time to say it and it don't have to be like uhh excuse me ma'am I was hoping that possibly I could have some vagina please

More like wait until y'all are both vibing making eye contact a lil bit of touching non verbal cues are everything...
If I don't say something nasty then I'm squeezing a titty a booty cheek or I'm going full maga and grabbing her by the punany lol

That way it's either slow down cowboy but she still with it
Or get your hands off me you perv...and she leaves either way I ain't guessing or wasting my time till 5 am wit blue balls

 

[Sccit]

Rabbi slurp and burp
gave your herpes before
you learned to crawl.
you kept going back.......

SO THIS WHY YOUR GAY ASS ENVIOUS OF JEWS THEN



ALL STARTING TO MAKE SENSE NOW

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Yes it is.
Still won't hold up in court

You do know you can have a woman sign a full contract that she wants to have sex with you willingly at 4pm today and then tell the cops she said stop at 4:01 and you kept going until 4:02 and you still fukking going to jail

Y'all nikkas courting based on rape charges?? What type of women have y'all been dealing with?? Talk about discernment

 

[Braman]

I never was about those innuendo games
Always found it weird when some women didn't appreciate my honesty

I’m glad you said this.

Bc y’all are conflating a woman appreciating your honesty with her giving you the box

A chick will literally tell you: I appreciate your honesty….but no.

 

[Conan]

OP trying to put yall on game.

So many men in 2025 catch cases cause they can't communicate properly and only see what they want to see.

Hope you brehs learn how to talk to women

Yeah I'm gonna have to call bullshyt on this idea.

First off, shout-out to OP but she's only one woman, and she doesn't represent womandom in it's entirety.

More importantly, there's a huge fukking chasm between catching cases BECAUSE you refuse to see the warning signs, and going for the Hail Mary instead of running the ball and steadily moving the chains, taking what the "defense" gives you. Yeah there will be women who appreciate a more direct approach but they are in the minority. And the first time? Some tact is necessary IMO.

In my experience (I'm not no Don Quixote but I've had some encounters), even if the woman is gagging for it, they are conditioned to recoil at more direct approaches (the first time). However they are really good at indicating they're ok with you making that small next step. And then they give permission for the small next step. And on it goes until it's go time. Or she says, "let's not go beyond this point" which is cool, but you've made it some distance, and you've established some sexual tension that can be picked up on the next time (if there is one), and you didn't freak her out by jumping the gun and asking for coitus out the bat.

Now once the first time is out the way, and it was good for her, ain't nothing wrong with being more explicit. Deeds been done already, ain't nothing new. "Come over and sit on my face" is sexy to them now. It's crazy the first time, and I'm not Steph shooting from the logo

Is there room for communication? Of course. After the first move when she demonstrates that green light, nothing wrong with explicitly asking, "you want to do this"? Regular verbal check-ins to see her mood, before and during. Reading body and non-verbal cues. Having the willingness to walk away and jack off if for whatever reason she's anything less than enthusiastic at the prospect of fukking. Do that and you won't catch a case unless you just hooked up with a lying psycho (in which case you're fukked anyways).

I'm not getting the point of the OP at all.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Like I said to another poster...ya'll got the vocabulary to hide your intentions but not the vocabulary to gracefully state your intentions? Got it.

I think I've already discussed the exact same points in this thread 5 times.



They lack of maturity and creativity makes it extremely obvious why relationships don't work.

You are talking about 16 different things at once and think we don't see it.....

YES... when you first meet a woman, you should tell her your intentions......

YES... when you are trying to fukk TONIGHT, you should let her know your intentions.......

NO.... it is not a good idea to tell her each and every single time that you want to have sex with her, never leaving it up to how you or her feel that night.

Intentions to have sex when she's ready =/= intentions to have sex with her because I'M ready. So really, I only need to tell her that once and make sure she consents when I'm sliding it in.

shyt, my WIFE doesn't want me coming home and just informing her of the sex I want to have that night. She wants to be woo'd, kissed on, rubbed up, relaxed and into it herself. Not get a memo at 3pm about my daily desire for sex and my need for her to put consent in writing in case she wants to charge me later....



You are WILDING. Why not just have the consent form by the night stand so I don't give her 30 mins to 5 hours to change her mind?

I get where you was going. I get the premise. But you are really giving some 7th grade level advice here and you know it.

 

[RAX 010]

I’m glad you said this.

Bc y’all are conflating a woman appreciating your honesty with her giving you the box

A chick will literally tell you: I appreciate your honesty….but no.

I don't even think we need to disagree about this

Not all cases but sometimes you need to let your intentions be clear as hell and not play the passive role even if she bad as hell ... sometimes
My discernment lets me know when