She used to be a stripper and admits to being human trafficked, BUT

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There’s another Coli breh that wifed what most would consider a whore - she had threesomes with cacs and shyt - and he’s happy and seemingly starting a family with/marrying her. You cannot build a good future worried about the past. Sometimes people change and you can’t really be worried about they did in the past, etc. Your girl might not come with a clean resume, but if who she’s is now is the girl for you then just go and be happy breh.

I personally couldn’t do it, but we all have individual choices and you shouldn’t stand in the way of your own happiness.

:hubie:
She might have had unsavory experiences but his wife wasn’t a fukking prostitute :comeon:

Anyway good luck realist bags OP I guess ain’t nothing we can say you already tryna save a whore because you liked her 7 years ago :wow:
 

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She might have had unsavory experiences but his wife wasn’t a fukking prostitute :comeon:

Anyway good luck realist bags OP I guess ain’t nothing we can say you already tryna save a whore because you liked her 7 years ago :wow:

I qualified my post by saying based on those experiences most would have considered her XYZ as it pertains to how the term is colloquially employed - and a lot of the posts in that thread support what I’m saying - not to mean that she was an actual sex worker etc. it’s damn near impossible to make a 1:1 parallel as people’s stories and personal circumstances will always be different

The sentiment I was getting across is that sometimes just cause the majority of us wouldn’t wife “sluts” or outright sex workers, that shouldn’t preclude him from doing so. Some have, and have found happiness.

I wouldn’t do it - but aye, follow your heart - the possibility of a happy ending exists:hubie:
 

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I feel your pain breh. You think it came back around because it's for you. Maybe it is. But if you can't move forward without apprehension and her past interferes with the present then fukk that shyt. There's plenty more women out here that are just as attractive and successful as her that won't come with the past of a prostitute. I know how it is to reminisce. A broad that you have history with (however limited it may be) and familiarity with will always be a consideration but me personally - I could never.
 

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At the end of the day, you gonna have to make a decision on whether you actually love her or the world breh

Cause if you wanna be with her, her past is the past. You looking backwards when you could be planning for the future instead

With that in mind, consider why her past bothers you. Then ask yourself if escaping the shame of being attached to her despite her past is worth missing out on her as a whole

Cause if you don't really like or want her, it's really a no brainer. But if you truly love and want to be with the woman, you kinda shooting yourself in the foot to me

You shouldn't make a decision you can't stand on though. So whichever way you go, I hope the outcome goes well for you and her

Just move with respect towards her l. Cause on the flip, imagine some things you did in the past that you regret. How would you feel if that was used against you as condemnation? She's still human

You don't have to force yourself to be with her, but just know you can communicate that without taking advantage of her or dogging her
 

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She's self employed, been a business owner for over 7 years in a nice suburb, and is in school to offer another service in her shop and expand. Despite her past still has a very bubbly personality and has a very positive outlook on life "Only" 34 years old.

What y'all doing? :patrice:






When I was a freshman in college, before I ever even took a class, this was the first girl I met in the dorms. Absolutely stunning. Amazing body, gorgeous face, she was actually a cheerleader for the university. She was sheltered and never experienced life. Ngl brehs I was still unsure of myself back then because I was used to hood bytches. This was a suburban DIME and she was just so fukking perfect I friendzoned myself because I didn't think I was worthy. Most pathetic sht ever but I'm a realist nikka suck my dikk Im certain i can fukk your girl and your mother today foh :camby:




Anyways we were good friends for a while, she would come to my house parties I threw on campus, hear about/meet all the bytches I smashed etc. but I never shot my shot. She out of nowhere dropped out of college and moved to Atlanta to rebel against her parents. I visited her down there about a year after she moved. Same girl, no tats, everything was cool. We fell out of communication not long after that though.

Fast forward like a decade later, Reconnected with her a couple months ago AT A STRIP CLUB(she wasn't working, came with a friend for her bday), she's got tats all over, a DOLLAR SIGN NEXT TO HER EAR :ufdup: all kinda bullshyt. Even a tat under her chin. I mean wtf. So I take her number and we link a few days later she's telling me her story and Imma spare the details cause it gets crazy but long story less long she moved back home 7 years ago and with the money she made started her own business and sht. I've seen it, it's legit, she's doing her thing. I admit I pretty much been loving her since the day I met her and I'm so sorry I was a p*ssy and didn't tell her back then. I feel like I could've saved her from that bullshyt but she insists it's okay because knowing how I was I probably would've cheated and fukked it all up anyway :martin: so we're reconnecting at a great time in life where her past is in the past and so is mine. Two black business owners that have experienced life and are now business oriented could be a beautiful thing so she's all in and I....idk.



Whenever she dances for me I think of her working at clubs, whenever she sucks my dikk with them goofy eyelashes I think of her turning tricks, massages, etc. it's like she so good and so freaky at what she does its impossible to not think of how she acquired such abilities.














You wifing? Off the title alone it's an obvious hell no but I think context matters which is why I didn't add a poll. I know we got simps on here as well as an entire HOH committee so I'm interested to hear varied responses. Don't reply unless you've read the whole thread though, fakkit.





my mind kinda made up, the time to have been with her was way back in college, that ship has long since sailed to Whore Town and I'm just down for the ride. I'm having a hard time enjoying the ride though because I keep wishing the circumstances were different.



Young brehs let this be a lesson. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. And if you finally do take it later, it may not be enough to win the damn game anyway smh
Sounds like you fumbled because you were too scared back then breh. But even now why are you thinking about what the next did or didn't do when y'all are intimate. If you truly were that guy like you claim to be all that other stuff shouldn't matter. She's with you now. You getting down with a woman and you got another breh penis on your mind. She probably felt that energy off you back when you friend zoned yourself. Just accept it you're the gay homeboy that occasionally wants to smash. Live your truth breh and you won't be so conflicted
 

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At the end of the day, you gonna have to make a decision on whether you actually love her or the world breh

Cause if you wanna be with her, her past is the past. You looking backwards when you could be planning for the future instead

With that in mind, consider why her past bothers you. Then ask yourself if escaping the shame of being attached to her despite her past is worth missing out on her as a whole

Cause if you don't really like or want her, it's really a no brainer. But if you truly love and want to be with the woman, you kinda shooting yourself in the foot to me

You shouldn't make a decision you can't stand on though. So whichever way you go, I hope the outcome goes well for you and her

Just move with respect towards her l. Cause on the flip, imagine some things you did in the past that you regret. How would you feel if that was used against you as condemnation? She's still human

You don't have to force yourself to be with her, but just know you can communicate that without taking advantage of her or dogging her
Preaching breh! A lot of brehs be too fixated on a person's past instead of looking towards the future. They're too worried about outside validation and what other people are going to think or say that don't pay their bills. That's why they're so many brehs and females in miserable relationships now. They're in situations with people they think they should be with instead of the person that truly makes them happy and lights that fire in them.
 

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Stop giving these hoes passes and let the world do what it's going to do to them.

You negroes trying to save them are killing yourself.
 

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I know we got simps on here as well as an entire HOH committee
Well as a representative of the latter, I will say this, think Cassie, what she told you is only surface level and shes hiding much worse. You'll have to deal with the emotional baggage that comes with them skeletons
 

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Have you ever considered you can just remain friends and still fukk without ever having to commit to her or telling her you love her?

If the friendship lasts (for years from today) then maybe ponder what you’re pondering, but as of now…

:mjlol:
normally i would say i agree but the context is someone who is writing more about her, than she is about him

that cant be considered friendship let alone a relationship

emotional vampires are people who dont really have emotions, they need new fixes to satisfy the absence of a real soul. When your world looks like commodities its probably like being married to lube :francis:

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